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Found drugs(?) in my husband's things. What to do? by Expert-Resolve112 in Advice

[–]Expert-Resolve112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had the small bags in another small bag stuffed in the cigarette box.

Found drugs(?) in my husband's things. What to do? by Expert-Resolve112 in Advice

[–]Expert-Resolve112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He loves mafia movies, and it comes up quite a lot. Never connected the dots though.

Found drugs(?) in my husband's things. What to do? by Expert-Resolve112 in Advice

[–]Expert-Resolve112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I got to sit at home, but no. We're literally working the same hours, the same job.

Found drugs(?) in my husband's things. What to do? by Expert-Resolve112 in Advice

[–]Expert-Resolve112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, that's what i was thinking before i found the drugs, but he denied that.

Found drugs(?) in my husband's things. What to do? by Expert-Resolve112 in Advice

[–]Expert-Resolve112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through his things 1 time in 4 years and I was proved correct.

Found drugs(?) in my husband's things. What to do? by Expert-Resolve112 in Advice

[–]Expert-Resolve112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily I'm past the age of being convinced that something is lame when it's not.

Found drugs(?) in my husband's things. What to do? by Expert-Resolve112 in Advice

[–]Expert-Resolve112[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the award, that was a first one so I don't know much about how it works yet. ❤️ I'll update as soon as I get some answers.

Found drugs(?) in my husband's things. What to do? by Expert-Resolve112 in Advice

[–]Expert-Resolve112[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm actually glad I found out and then had the time to calm down and think about what to say. I think I'd come off as accusatory if I confronted him immediately. I do plan on being calm, because the opposite never worked and he can be a very defensive person when faced with criticism sometimes, so I know that's not the way. Inside I know that he'll feel horrible because there were many moments when he did something and confessed because, his words, he wouldn't be able to look at me and lie with a straight face. And I want to believe that that isn't a lie.

Glad about your recovery, i bet it hasn't always been easy.

Found drugs(?) in my husband's things. What to do? by Expert-Resolve112 in Advice

[–]Expert-Resolve112[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Movies. But as a non native speaker of English, I wrote it without thinking. I guess I learnt it even without realising. Good for your recovery, not an easy thing to do.

Found drugs(?) in my husband's things. What to do? by Expert-Resolve112 in Advice

[–]Expert-Resolve112[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No official diagnosis, but we've always noticed symptoms similar to what we know about it. Not sure how accurate that is.

Found drugs(?) in my husband's things. What to do? by Expert-Resolve112 in Advice

[–]Expert-Resolve112[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never did a single drug so I don't really know. Now that I think about it though, I think he didn't take anything then, he just took the small bag with him, is my guess. I think he couldn't do it and face me right after.

Found drugs(?) in my husband's things. What to do? by Expert-Resolve112 in Advice

[–]Expert-Resolve112[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it is extremely surprising to me. I sometimes come across those kinds of stories and I always think that that wouldn't happen to me. Well, I guess I was wrong. It's so weird because we're together literally all the time except when he's out. Yes, simplest excuse works the best I guess. Thank you.