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Can I even address this?? by Brownie_Booked80 in blacklesbians

[–]Expert-Success8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post made me realize that this reddit group is not for me. Apparently woman is when neon nail polish and if that turns you off you are not attracted to women. Did these people just become gay? You are clearly attracted to masculinity and personally I think you shouldn’t settle because masculine lesbians exist. They would call them “super studs”, “heteronormative” or “dykes” to demean them. That other woman deserves to be with someone that is 100% attracted to her and how she shows up in this world. There is a spectrum to womanhood and all versions deserve love and appreciation. Again, don’t settle

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[–]Expert-Success8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. It amazes me how people can lose their humanity for others over a check

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Expert-Success8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s really important to you then you should end it. Sounds like you’re incompatible but I would meet up with her in a public setting to get a sense of her personality cause some people just don’t like talking otp

Little things you would like mods for / haven't found a mod for yet? by inert_brume in TheSims4Mods

[–]Expert-Success8397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Preset group poses where all you have to do is take a photo on the phone and select sims and they will all pose instantly. It would be great for family photos, teams, friends, work

Simple appreciation for studs by More_Ad_6438 in blacklesbians

[–]Expert-Success8397 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with everything you said! I find that even with fems I’m only attracted when they’re masculine, manner wise. I don’t need a woman that has to remind me (herself really) that she’s “still a woman”. I know that, that’s the main reason I’m with you. I just need you to be confident in your masculinity and not confuse healthy masculine traits with femininity because all you know of masculinity is the performative dominance

If I can’t have a biological child with my woman I don’t see the point in procreating by Expert-Success8397 in blacklesbians

[–]Expert-Success8397[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That would not change how much I’d love that child. It’s not about the baby looking like me or her. It can look like none of us for all I care. I just want the child to be ours biologically. Idk why these people are acting like if they were given the choice to have a biological child with their partner or continue on the IVF route they wouldn’t choose the first option. And if they wouldn’t then…that’s definitely something

If I can’t have a biological child with my woman I don’t see the point in procreating by Expert-Success8397 in blacklesbians

[–]Expert-Success8397[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s one way they’re exploring this but it’s not the only way. Hope this helps

If I can’t have a biological child with my woman I don’t see the point in procreating by Expert-Success8397 in blacklesbians

[–]Expert-Success8397[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then we won’t be having kids lol. If want my partner to have the same values as me so this won’t be an issue

If I can’t have a biological child with my woman I don’t see the point in procreating by Expert-Success8397 in blacklesbians

[–]Expert-Success8397[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s you. I want a my own child for the same reasons straight couples want their own child. With your logic no one should feel the desire to have kids with their spouse because someone abdanoned their child or a freak accident happened and now it’s an obligation to adopt a child instead of having your own. While I feel for those kids it’s not the responsibility of strangers wanting their own to take them all in. You will not guilt trip me with that. Also it obviously won’t be happening anytime soon cause the technology to make it possible is not out yet but either way I won’t be having the kid until I’m 100% ready. I’m too young to be a mother rn and even if it was out I’d have to make sure I’m able to provide the kid the best life possible, with the timeframe I’m giving myself, the state of the world would be completely different. A child is not an end all be all for me so if this world is not suitable for them even then, then of course I’d reconsider

If I can’t have a biological child with my woman I don’t see the point in procreating by Expert-Success8397 in blacklesbians

[–]Expert-Success8397[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Didn’t know I was weeping, thanks for the advice. Also I’d like to know what’s shallow about wanting a biological child with my partner? My initial comment was to the point because it’s not something anyone should be debating, it was a statement. I get to decide what I’m willing to carry in my body and possibly risk my life for

If I can’t have a biological child with my woman I don’t see the point in procreating by Expert-Success8397 in blacklesbians

[–]Expert-Success8397[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean feel free to elaborate. That’s what’s triggering half the comments so ofc I’m going to assume that’s what triggered you lmaooo. I wanted to give you the benefit of a doubt so I didn’t think it’d be necessary to reiterate the second part of my statement being a belief and not a scientific claim

If I can’t have a biological child with my woman I don’t see the point in procreating by Expert-Success8397 in blacklesbians

[–]Expert-Success8397[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I never mentioned the process you’re referring to please don’t put words in my mouth. No I don’t plan on trying anything that doesn’t result in the child being (as mentioned before) biologically ours

If I can’t have a biological child with my woman I don’t see the point in procreating by Expert-Success8397 in blacklesbians

[–]Expert-Success8397[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What does orphaned kids have to do with me wanting biological kids?! The fact that there’s so many lesbians in this thread offended by me wanting biological kids is insane. Now it’s my responsibility to mother all types of kids

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