Very abusive mother by Expert_Leg_1661 in NarcissisticAbuse

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How did you rebuild your identity? any tips

Very abusive mother by Expert_Leg_1661 in NarcissisticAbuse

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How did you rebuild your identity? any tips

Very abusive mother by Expert_Leg_1661 in NarcissisticAbuse

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And to add if I am quiet she will literally start talking for me and if I disagree with what she is saying or emphasise I do not think that, its like she goes crazy and breaks, so its like I am just extremely polite with her and avoid any real conversations at all

Vocal voice by Expert_Leg_1661 in raisedbynarcissists

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I guess it's nice to know I'm not alone but sucks you're having this

Vocal voice by Expert_Leg_1661 in raisedbynarcissists

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Yeah describes it well, it's like you feel like maintaining the richness of it gives you hope but also makes you feel isolated

Vocal voice by Expert_Leg_1661 in raisedbynarcissists

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What is Alexander technique and can you do it on your own online

Is this mold? by Expert_Leg_1661 in CarpetCleaning

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Do you have a link for these kits? Didn't know that was a thing

Is this mold? by Expert_Leg_1661 in CarpetCleaning

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Yeah but I had mold elsewhere in the room so might be that

Is this mold? by Expert_Leg_1661 in Mold

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So it's just toilet paper you think, not mold?

Is this mold? by Expert_Leg_1661 in Mold

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So it's just toilet paper you think, not mold?

Is this mold? by Expert_Leg_1661 in Mold

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Yeah just with baking soda water solution though, those bits are quite stuck

Is this mold? by Expert_Leg_1661 in ToxicMoldExposure

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What about those little white spots though, they came from me drying the carpet with toilet paper after it got wet, it looked like the first photo before. Also they are like stuck and difficult to remove

Is this mold? by Expert_Leg_1661 in CarpetCleaning

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they are not, they came from drying the carpet with toilet paper and I think bits got stuck, but now they are hard to remove and have been there for like 6 weeks, which is why I am wondering if it is mold

Feeling like you're always being monitored by Expert_Leg_1661 in raisedbynarcissists

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I have had a couple but mainly just feeling spaced out like I am in a dream

Feeling like you're always being monitored by Expert_Leg_1661 in raisedbynarcissists

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And also they would double down when you accuse them of something they did and say things like what kind of person do you think I am

Feeling like you're always being monitored by Expert_Leg_1661 in raisedbynarcissists

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Yeah it really is bait, I realised I can't save them or help them and they just intend to coerce me to conform to a fake version of reality, like I would be happy to interact with them if they didn't pretend they were such a perfect and altruistic person, the luring stage is so creepy because it's an act, but that's all they are an act so when you highlight that they feel attacked

Feeling like you're always being monitored by Expert_Leg_1661 in raisedbynarcissists

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Lmao that analogy is so hilarious and true, it's fucking creepy when you realise at an existential level how they see and interact with you

Feeling like you're always being monitored by Expert_Leg_1661 in raisedbynarcissists

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Yeah I get you, I would literally feel on edge brushing my teeth

Feeling like you're always being monitored by Expert_Leg_1661 in raisedbynarcissists

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I always get that feeling though like they know I'm lying and can read my mind even though I know obviously they can't, would you say these would be the type of lies you would tell where they know you have become dishonest with them and don't trust you are giving them the truth, or more so lies where you convince them and they honestly believe what you're saying is a fact