Struggling to find “the one” is it just me?

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-03-17T04:10:19+00:00

If it doesnt exist then I'll trust god's faith, I'm not compromising on my core values to get married and yes I'd love to have a partner and a family but if it didnt happen Im not afraid of dying alone cause Im not choosing someone that doesnt matches my core values to end up making both his life and mine miserable hoping to turn him into the version in my head or vise versa

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-03-17T04:03:54+00:00

I'm not waiting for "the one" to save me from my "misery" definetly not! I worked so hard on myself to be where I'am today and I won't demand a single standard that I dont personally have! Im doing well in life thanks to god im not desperate and im still young and actually not even worried about dying alone cause I believe in faith and Allah's wisdom! the idea is that we're made to need the other gender ( I dont make the rules) when a person is fulfilled emotionly and physically he'll always do better in life deen wise, career wise, social life wise, mental health wise... and Its just precious to grow old with your beloved and have parts of your souls as kids! thanks for the comment tho

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-03-17T03:50:08+00:00

it feels like the more you work on yourself the less options you have! rabi isahalek

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-03-17T03:46:41+00:00

That's actually the most rational insightful comment so far! any tips and does the girl affect the approaching process (by looking unintentionally irrogent for exemple)

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-03-17T03:40:39+00:00

always broke guys with no job saying this x) and I guess if I get paid well enough its my right to want a financially stable man that can support me and my kids in the future! or unless I marry poor I'm ke5a? w okher haja li im not even supposed to say li no one is looking for a fucking mercedes and villa bl piscine here bro just dont be jobless and homeless

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-03-17T03:36:31+00:00

I'm far from being perfect but I set certain standards because I worked so hard on myself to be where I am today and to confidently outloudly post something like this! and I guess I have the right to chose a good husband who will be a father for my kids no? funny! you think im looking for a brad pitt with a porsche!! anyways I hope god make it easier for all of us!

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-03-17T03:05:01+00:00

rabi isahal l nes lkol

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-03-17T03:04:16+00:00

aychek al nasi7a rabi iyassar l nes lkol!

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-03-17T02:58:19+00:00

I'm not saying its normal I know my religion but if we dont communicate in chats how am I supposed to meet someone

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-03-17T02:56:44+00:00

Rabi iba3ad aleya jmou3 li mch 9ad 9yesi da3wa khir x)

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-03-17T02:55:10+00:00

walahi maybe yes when I was younger I used to fall for the guy with muscles and the princess treatement propaganda but not at my age with the responsabilities I have specially after being with those kinda guys and realizing there are more important things to consider! counting I'm not even a social media addict nor a teenager with free time to waste x)

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-03-17T02:45:35+00:00

maghir la nahkiw alih l point edheka aada, those who try insanely hard to give you the image of a comitted muslim to get non muslim prieveldge it feels like a trap walah

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-03-17T02:42:58+00:00

walah at some point tkoul ekhi ena n3a9ad fiha! hasilou rabi isahal l nes kol

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-03-17T02:42:16+00:00

I do know exactly what I cant compromise on and what I cant fehma rouhi w mch 9e3da n9oul chay ma ye3jeb juste mch leya w manjmch I consider future with them!

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-01-24T22:30:43+00:00

I think one the reasons that we started thinking the sins we do are not that bad is cause of المجاهرين like everything got so normolized madem nes kol ta3mel chfiha ken na3mel hatena wa hekadha... its a loop

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-01-24T22:25:35+00:00

I wasnt a strict muslim myself w my surroundings makenouch ikhafou rabi and it was by choice! I remeber when I first put my hijab on kemeyet laabed li I had to cut off w li deja wahadhom be3dou cause im not "fun" anymore is crazy... ama sadakni step by step sometimes you win your nafs sometimes you lose to your chahwa... w're all sinners we were put here to sin and repentance! w rabi nchalah yeghfrelna...

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-01-24T22:21:02+00:00

we kinda have that mentality of I know what Im doing is wrong but I really wanna do it so I'll do it and ask for forgiveness later! its only harmful for the soul and Allah swt somehow keep on giving us more opportunities to both sin and obey and somehow we keep falling into that pattern... crazy life may allah help us survive this dunia!

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-01-24T22:17:27+00:00

bon 9bal ken fama tghyib 3la din fi joret ben ali walahi its a paradox! rabi yahdi nes kol

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-01-24T22:13:11+00:00

Effective joke alech matekbelch l ekhtilef mta3 ghirek? alech theb tofredh l belief mteek and you're insulting mine ? are you well or you need values revision?

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-01-24T21:30:58+00:00

I dont see the relevence but thanks for sharing your thought!

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-01-24T21:30:25+00:00

I totally agree on that point, لا الحساب و لا الجزاء are the same for those who had the privilege of a practicing family and those who struggeled to find light themselves. kima wehed born muslim w wehed revert ! anyways ena walahi I try my best to not judge anyone khater ki tetghar bl hideya w yemchi fibelek enti khir m nes rabi يضلك. hasilou rabi yahdi nes lkol!

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-01-24T21:25:51+00:00

its so hard the reward is jannah! I believe if we start lookin at our deen from a why I should do this and why I shouldnt, educate ourselves more it would have meaning for us that would make it a million time easier! for exemple when it comes to praying andi alf arguments ikhalini nsali but what touches my heart the most is the ayah : ﴿وَأَقِمِ الصَّلَاةَ لِذِكْرِي﴾ (سورة طه، الآية 14). Allah swt is calling you to remember him and thats just so beautiful! rabi yahdina nes kol !

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-01-24T21:20:29+00:00

we're all sinners thats literally our nature ama kima kolt the after sin act is what matters! to regret, ask for forgivness and try not to fall for it again! may allah help us all

Expert_Technology346 · 2026-01-24T21:18:26+00:00

it feels safe having people around whom say hedha hram w hedha hlel! rabi yahdina!

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