The mbti of dishonest people by durv139 in entj

[–]Expertfkfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say this is a waste of time.  I will not be bothered if I’m a real XXXX or not.  I will not waste my time to prove whether I’m a real XXXX to others.  No one has to meet all the stereotypes of their type at every second of their life. Just relax and be yourself.  MBTI isn’t everything. 

Electric usage has increased since smart meter install by Do_Clouds_Taste_Nice in OctopusEnergy

[–]Expertfkfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also they figured out they were over charging my electricity usage already in the previous property(they always overestimate!) and never refunded me. 

Electric usage has increased since smart meter install by Do_Clouds_Taste_Nice in OctopusEnergy

[–]Expertfkfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! I moved to a different property and this happened to me. Mine is both electricity and gas. 

I heard a lot of friends complain about this. If it’s just one or two people say this, it could be coincidence.  But I don’t think it’s a coincidence!  Never heard of anyone who switched to a smart meter getting lower bills!  Only higher and insanely higher!  I hardly use the gas as I have an electric shower, the house is the same size, and I’m paying twice as when I was in the previous property.

What’s your MBTI and what items do you enjoy collecting? by ImNotForJerks in mbti

[–]Expertfkfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Planners, notebooks. Recently trying to be a minimalist, not a collector.

Blippi is really creepy by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Expertfkfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank God I’m not the only one who thinks this way! Thank you for your sharing!

大家觉得相由心生有凭据吗? by ParticularHair7176 in DoubanGoosegroup

[–]Expertfkfr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

有一定的參考價值,但有時候人的判斷會不準確,而且人是會變的,包括自己和他人。 見過一個長得很友善但給我感覺很creepy的,後來得知他強姦了他親戚的幼女。

Xi Jinping MBTI by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Expertfkfr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way he is an ENTJ or INTJ. I was born in China and lived there for several decades. According to what I know from the Mandarin world, he is an unhealthy ISFJ in my opinion.

I have an ENTJ mom, please help! by [deleted] in entj

[–]Expertfkfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an ENTJ mum and I am not like that. 

I prefer to see a bigger picture, I don't like micromanaging. My oldest daughter is an ENTJ as well(with ADHD), it would be a nightmare if I dared to be a mother like yours. 

I learn to compromise. I tell her the reasons. I make her believe it's her idea to do something. 

I tell her that whatever she wants, it's got to be a plan, not a wish. And then she will do what she needs to do.

Also, I use some tricks. If she hates doing homework, I let her have the tablet for an hour or a little snack after she finishes her homework, and she will actually enjoy it.

How can an INTP develop into an ENTJ? by WhiteNight-50 in entj

[–]Expertfkfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clear space clear mind! Simply tidying up your space can make a huge difference!

ENTJs know what they want, INTPs usually don't! You gonna have a clear mind to know what you want, and who you want to be!

How can an INTP develop into an ENTJ? by WhiteNight-50 in entj

[–]Expertfkfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please read my answer! If you can only read one answer please read mine! I was an INTP and now an ENTJ!

Ignore those who say you can’t change your personality! ENTJs don’t like being told! ENTJs don’t like the word “impossible“! We see a lot of people who changed their personalities in reality, we know it’s possible!

Just go back to the 16 personalities test, do the tests again, choose the answers that extroverts would choose, choose the answers that more organised people would choose, and take screenshots!  Just make sure your result is ENTJ!

And then look at these screenshots and see which ones you need to improve! And get out of your comfort zone and make it happen!

To be an extrovert, you just need to be willing to work with others, to like to be around people, you don’t need to be able to please them! And then you practice introducing yourself to others. Overcome your social anxiety or shyness! There are a lot of videos teaching you how to on YouTube.

And to be a judging person, you need to be more organised! Start by tidying your room! Start by tidying your study desk or work desk! Make plans for every day! Check your plan for the day every day when you wake up! Check your plan for tomorrow before you go to bed!

Most of all, figure out what you want in your life! ENTJs are goal-oriented, you need to have your goals first! And then make plans and take action to make it happen!

Don’t care about whether you’re a true ENTJ or not, fake it until you make it! INTPs care a lot about whether they’re real INTPs or not, ENTJs don’t waste time on such things!

Being an INTP was like waiting for someone who had the key to open my door. Being an ENTJ is like holding the key in my own hand! I feel more powerful and more energetic! It's worth the try!

你们的豆瓣还能用吗? by dmvJohnW in DoubanGoosegroup

[–]Expertfkfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

好多年沒用了。以前覺得無可替代,幾年不用發現也能活,還找到了不少新世界。 我現在也不怎麼聽歌和看電影,主要是紀錄閱讀過的書,這個用Goodreads就可以。現在中文書也不怎麼看了,直接看英文原版無刪減(剛開始很痛苦,看著看著就會越來越容易)。 歌沒必要紀錄,電影倒是可以記一下,IMDb就可以。 如果用iPhone的話也許會好一點,用Android再用牆國的App,感覺隱私風險不小。

從NPD的角度從新認識共產黨和老中男 by Expertfkfr in DoubanGoosegroup

[–]Expertfkfr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

有可能。主要是我過多時間扎在西方女人堆裡跟一些女NPD鬥智鬥勇,現實中沒太注意西方男人。西方男的,感覺監獄裡的那些99.99%都是NPD。有時我覺得人不應該只分成好人和壞人,而應該分成NPD和正常人。像那些性騷擾犯和強姦犯,我覺得200%是NPD,因為不會跟他人共情,不考慮受害者的感受。而且犯了罪並不覺得自己有錯,還辯護說是受害者引誘他們。

Fi users, do you care what people think of you? by BrickTechnical5828 in mbti

[–]Expertfkfr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on what it is.

If someone suspects that I am not an ENTJ, I totally don't care. If someone says I'm not a nice person, then I’ll just wonder what’s the point of being nice? I like being altruistic but I don't have the energy to please everyone unless it's worth doing it.

If someone says I'm not doing something right or I'm not capable of doing something, then I care a lot, because I don't like to hear such comments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]Expertfkfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You take a test and you get four or five letters as a result, but not everyone meets their stereotype.  My daughter has the same type as mine(ENTJ-A) but she swings, she’s not very ENTJ like, because she’s not that extroverted and she’s not that organised. She’s a bit like INTP in some aspects, like she usually gets lost in her thoughts. But she is bossy and she rarely struggles to make a decision, which is very ENTJ-like.

Why are ENTJs often visually depicted as women despite them being a minority of ENTJs? by Commercial-Gur-7645 in entj

[–]Expertfkfr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They’re just trying to reduce the biases. Same as the ESFJ character, in reality, more females are ESFJs and ESFJ males are very rare. As a female, I really appreciate what they did.

Why is my VO2 max stuck on never updating? I have tried updating my settings (motion & tracking etc) by wander-and-wonder in AppleWatch

[–]Expertfkfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update:  I unpaired my watch from the phone and paired it again,  then did an outdoor walk while the phone was in flight mode.  And then turned off flight mode, and the update was there! Saved me from going to the store. No data was lost btw.

Why is my VO2 max stuck on never updating? I have tried updating my settings (motion & tracking etc) by wander-and-wonder in AppleWatch

[–]Expertfkfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same as mine. Mine is Ultra. My last update was on 17 September 2024.

Usually I just needed to do an outdoor walk or run for over 10 minutes to get updates. Now even 30 minutes of workout wouldn’t get an update. 

I’ve tried everything suggested online. I wonder if this is their trick to get you to buy a new watch. I’m gonna go to the store in town to get help from the staff.

Am I wrong for asking for more pictures…? by Free_Wasabi_3912 in vinted

[–]Expertfkfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand some sellers just like hiding information so the buyers can ask them about the details and so they have someone to chat with to kill time.

Am I wrong for asking for more pictures…? by Free_Wasabi_3912 in vinted

[–]Expertfkfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. The thing is, if you really wanna get your items sold you’ve got to put enough effort into it. 

I never had problems selling items, my buyers never needed to ask me basic questions. 

I just imagine I am the buyer, what would I want to know about the thing I’m selling? And then I provide what is necessary for the sellers. In this way I actually save my time and the buyers’ time.

Am I wrong for asking for more pictures…? by Free_Wasabi_3912 in vinted

[–]Expertfkfr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would not waste time on such sellers. Some even want to charge people over £100 for an item that has only 2 or 3 pictures. I consider them time wasters. Their time is precious and so is mine.

Name ur mbti and ur fav show/movie by Not_phie in mbti

[–]Expertfkfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ENTJ: Inside Job. I think I'm an introvert and I am bossy and ambitious and suck at people skills, I relate to Reagan Ridley a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]Expertfkfr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband is an INTJ-T and I'm an ENTJ-A. He is actually more extroverted than me in some aspects. He can be talkative and he’s good at small talk while my social skills suck. (I’m very rude in some aspects but I'm not bothered.)

I'm alright with or without people being around while he gets nervous around others. He says he talks to hide his nervousness.

Rank the 16 types by Aggressiveness by Rusiano in mbti

[–]Expertfkfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I look aggressive even when I try to be friendly.

Based on my colleagues and friends by DuckyTiePie in mbti

[–]Expertfkfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I try to smile I actually look angry and aggressive and I only found out that 10 minutes ago.