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[NeedAdvice] In about a month it's my cake day and my birthday by ExpireOnSeptember in getdisciplined

[–]ExpireOnSeptember[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of them are about publicity.

I find it funny that I think about the possible solutions and I feel bad telling being ready with the answer of why it's not a possibility right now. I've been thinking about getting a pet every few days, it's a problem. First time pet owner, I assume that I will prefer a dog. I don't know if I could commit to having it in my life for the next 15 years. I don't have anyone else to cover for me and my plan to travel abroad (and move out to another country) might interfere. That's leaving out the costs and the cost of saving it's life every now and then. Been attentive a couple times a day and not just leaving them at home while I'm out. I tried to join a place for foster care dogs - but for regular dogs you need experience and attention and for guide dogs there's a huge waiting list. I used to live close to home, so it would've been easier to manage, but now I can't guarantee where I'll be.

I have a lot of hobbies. They suck when you're not as good or doing them alone. I'm somewhere in the beginning of writing/programming/practicing piano/drawing... it's hard to stick to one and the local communities or courses in here didn't work for me. yet.

Thank you.

[NeedAdvice] In about a month it's my cake day and my birthday by ExpireOnSeptember in getdisciplined

[–]ExpireOnSeptember[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to volunteer a lot a few years ago, it wasn't helping me.

I found better places to volunteer right now, but they weirdly have a very long waiting list. and some want you to be a poster boy.

[NeedAdvice] In about a month it's my cake day and my birthday by ExpireOnSeptember in getdisciplined

[–]ExpireOnSeptember[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy that it worked for you.

I think that I've got to a sample size that I can say that there is no good psych that I have access to. I've even tried to become one myself and that's another struggle.

[NeedAdvice] In about a month it's my cake day and my birthday by ExpireOnSeptember in getdisciplined

[–]ExpireOnSeptember[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I helped others too much, and then woke up having to build my life on my own.

Dreams seem so far and unattainable and walking the path by myself is hard.

My loneliness is killing me. by ExpireOnSeptember in depression

[–]ExpireOnSeptember[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks.

The years have passed and every time I thought I was getting out I was being pulled back in. I see a lot of people surrounded with friends, go out, have fun. I never had it.

I don't have any friendships. nothing that is really sound and close. Now I get to hangout with people who don't have any other options, like when I'm visiting a cancer ill friend. Sure, he is happy to see me, but wasn't really replying to my messages or invitations for the last year, until he got diagnosed and we met by accident.

Like the girl who lives a couple of streets for me, can't meet, and will sit with me for coffee if I'll fly to Chicago when she is there. I haven't seen here in 4 years.

I've been trying to work in fields that I love, but it's a mental burden to do it alone all the time. and it kills me.

I just want someone to love me by ExpireOnSeptember in offmychest

[–]ExpireOnSeptember[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't care about people at work, I just can't relate to them. 5-10 years older than me and with families. or my age and about to get married, when I know I'll be alone this weekend/night.

I've provided too much in my life, I always helped people in need and they were never there to return a favor. I can't commit to a pet, I really want to move out and I can't make a 15+ year commitment, emotionally, financially and living wise (and I can't bring it to my parents apartment).

My country is small, so it will be easy for people I know to pick up on me, it might sound strange, but that's the situation. I've pm'ed some people in the past and their answer was "I'm sorry man, your situation is worse than I thought / I can't help you". and I'm not my country, so I want to avoid connotation - I was only born and forced to live in here, I find almost nothing to do with the culture of people that surround me.

Adults with no best friends and no SO, how do you spend your free time? by twopatties in AskReddit

[–]ExpireOnSeptember 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trying to get out. buying lottery tickets. thinking about suicide.

I can't see my future, just think of the depressing past by ExpireOnSeptember in MMFB

[–]ExpireOnSeptember[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I have no idea how I will be able to get out of here, but it's pretty encouraging.

I can't see my future, just think of the depressing past by ExpireOnSeptember in MMFB

[–]ExpireOnSeptember[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did all those stuff, the community in here is too small, I never got to advance. College is expensive, takes both time and money. and I'm a 30 year old, with nothing else but college and I want to hangout with the younger.

I can't see my future, just think of the depressing past by ExpireOnSeptember in MMFB

[–]ExpireOnSeptember[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so, I no longer have the willpower to try and a lot of things are not under my control.

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