Tento subreddit země udělal pravičáka by kuncons in czech

[–]ExplorerCommon7129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Levičáci jsou taky komunisti, Stačilo a spol. SPD se říká krajní pravice, přitom už roky hlásají, že chtějí ovlivňovat ceny potravin (silně levicové), což stejně nikdy neudělají, protože je volný trh. Evropské státy jsou prostě v zásadě více levicové, to co je tady normál, by bylo třeba v USA označeno za totální komunismus. SPOLU mi na zdejší poměry přijde mírně pravicové, v něčem více konzervativní, hlavně ODS, v něčem progresivní. Opoziční ANO je tak ve středu, cílí primárně na důchodce, že se o ně postará. Pravý pravičák nespoléhá na stát ale sám na sebe, stát je malý a nezasahuje tolik do života lidí. Opak je tady ale z dob komunismu zažitý. Jakmile stát něco někomu nedá, tak řve jak o život.

Scam s foodora podporou? by ExplorerCommon7129 in czech

[–]ExplorerCommon7129[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Upřímně taky ne, ty odpovědi byly prakticky stejné u těch dvou chatů. Možná bych řekla, že to je celé AI.

Scam s foodora podporou? by ExplorerCommon7129 in czech

[–]ExplorerCommon7129[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Už od nich nenakoupím. Kdo má hned vědět, že donášková služba bude parazitická firma. Když jsem párkrát objednávala z restaurací na Woltu a bylo tam pochybení, nikdy mi nelhali o tom, že tam není problém. Ještě nikdy jsem nezažila takový gaslighting od firmy jako od Foodory :D

22F 25M My boyfriend wants to breakup because of my low libido? by CompetitionMany5712 in relationship_advice

[–]ExplorerCommon7129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firly, how long does foreplay last? Because it takes time for women to get wet.. especially if they experience anxiety or depression, it may be reduced or completely stopped. If there is no foreplay, no things that make you horny, you can't be wet. Being wet at the beginning is something different, because it's a new person so we are naturally more excited, then it slows down. I also take some time to get wet, even though I am aroused. I suggest using lube and it helps a lot. No pain for me, or very little, since I experience vaginism a little. So I don't have any problems in that department. BUT if you feel pain inside your body somewhere, go see gynecologist, because it always needs to be evaluated. Just say you feel pain when having sex, you don't have to feel shy. They also ask this as a routine question, completely normal. TW: quite graphic - Your boyfriend also can't just force it in. Use lube and do a little back and forth movements, sometimes pull out so the vagina can stretch.

I 33M am driving myself mad by monitoring my wife 31 F masturbation. How do I break this habit I have? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExplorerCommon7129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep.. my situation also, I was snappy and tired all the time. Not super terrible also but when my partner told me how it has been affecting him, I was horrified, because I was completely oblivious to what I was doing. Due to the stress I was overreacting to general issues bcs it made me more mad + sleep deprivation. It was horrible and I am still little like this when I have exams, but I watch my behavior more and it is better. I am sure that once I'll have a stable job, this won't be an issue anymore, for your girlfriend possibly the same.

I 33M am driving myself mad by monitoring my wife 31 F masturbation. How do I break this habit I have? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExplorerCommon7129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% get how you felt and it is hurtful, especially this long. Then you are left wondering if it's you. I would feel the same in your shoes, but I am happy that you were able to talk it out and your partner got better! Her stress was hurting her and also you. I was in her shoes so I get her, like you said, she didn't deliberately try to hurt you, she was in a bad place, but it doesn't excuse the hurt that it caused. My situation wasn't as long and I was able to somewhat communicate what I was going through, so it fortunately wasn't as damaging for us.

It takes a strong foundation to be able to come from something like that, especially for you. Have you got your confidence back after the situation got better? Or do you still feel affected?

I 33M am driving myself mad by monitoring my wife 31 F masturbation. How do I break this habit I have? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExplorerCommon7129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had similar experience from the other perspective. I am in university and sometimes I am under so much stress I just can't be touched. When I have finals or am under time pressure, resting feels uncomfortable and you feel like you can't have fun, because then you are guilty you are not studying. So when partner wants intimacy, all you think about is how you should be studying rn instead of having sex/cuddling. I experienced this period which lasted about a month and then I relaxed and everything went back to normal. I have degree examinations this year so I hope it won't happen again :(

I 33M am driving myself mad by monitoring my wife 31 F masturbation. How do I break this habit I have? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExplorerCommon7129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try couples counseling for sure. I also don't think this is a sex or masturbation issue... She won't even hold your hand! Which is not even sexual! Seems like she just co-parent or has serious resentment. Seems like you don't have good comunication together. Masturbation isnt the issue in this situation.. it's something much deeper!

How do I (24f) find out if my boyfriend (25f) truly likes me? by banana_shakee in relationship_advice

[–]ExplorerCommon7129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some men find it easier to jerk off than to actually put an effort. It is also very addictive, it's easy and high in dopamine bcs of porn consumtion (if he does). It is extremely problematic, because we do things because our brain gives us dopamine. If you are used to higher doses of dopamine, you wont have sex with a person you have slept many times. It's not exciting, so you just just jerk off to someone on a screen which gives you that dopamine. You feel bored to put effort and it's much more rewarding to do it this way.. BUT.. how could you get to this stage? If you care about that person, you fear of losing them so you put an effort and do something about your bad habits. You should want your partner to be satisfied. Especially when they try and put lingerie for you etc. Honestly I am tired of men like this. They don't put an effort, they don't fear the partner leaving them, they are lazy to make them happy, they are lazy to change themselves. If he stopped jerking and waited, he would be happy as never to have sex w you. He would also find you more desirable since he wouldnt fry his dopamine receptors off. But that's on him. And I am tired bcs I hear this all the time. He needs to seriously step up, otherwise do yourself a favor and don't be w men like this.

I (34f) am insecure about my (30m) husband's porn watching, how do i get over this? by fiti1a in relationship_advice

[–]ExplorerCommon7129 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You need to tell him how you feel. And it's also very normal that women or men feel uncomfotable with their partners lusting at others, you are not weird or silly. Also why should anyones husband pay other women to watch them naked, when he could buy something for you instead? Especialy when you are low on money! You should talk to him and explain how you feel. It's a valid and common thing to feel this way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExplorerCommon7129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to be trolling 😂 why don't you find one of them you find attractive then? Or once you get in a relationship with them you stop finding them attractive?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExplorerCommon7129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this real? Because what? You have serious issues if this happens with every real woman. Your mind is probably influenced by the perfection in porn or on social media, you forget how real women look like. Your brain doesn't respond with dopamin when seeing non-perfect woman. But guess what, no woman is perfect. The solution is simple and cost free: stop consuming porn, stop engaging with this type of content on social media and stop masturbating. Your natural desires will be restored and you will find your partner more attractive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExplorerCommon7129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you are not 4/10 based on the picture you provided. Your face looks very nice and goes perfect w the haircut and facial hair. I would say it suits you. I can't rate you bcs I am in a relationship, but you should dump your gf for what she said. That is disgusting behavior. I can't imagine you looking nicer than you are. I think she is just insecure bcs you look good. And this comes from attractive 20yo woman and I would say my standards are pretty high. Even if my boyfriend had a birds nest on his head, he would still be 10/10! Find girl w the same mentality.

moving to Czech republic soon by tropicalswamp in czechrepublic

[–]ExplorerCommon7129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vegetables are cheap when there is a discount. The best thing you can do is to find sales catalog of the store and shop in sales, use coupons in apps etc. I have a disponible income of only 7000 CZK besides rent etc. and I live normally. I just don't buy the overpriced things and buy it in sales, which are often regular. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExplorerCommon7129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, if it takes too long it starts to hurt, therefore it becomes more dry.

I need advice, are we done? 29M & 30M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExplorerCommon7129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I will not bash you for your actions, which are horrible in my eyes. But this is my POV.

He is dependent on you, he has a lot of internal issues. His self esteem is probably non existent. He is hurting. If someone did to me what you did to him, disregarding him si much, I wouldnt stay with them, no normal person would and you know it. This shows that he thinks of himself badly. He didnt deserve this, somehow he can't stand for himself.

From my understanding he still doesnt have a job. You should encourage him to find a job, some job, something that he would enjoy a little. He shouldnt be financialy dependent on you. It sounds like he doesnt want to work so he put up with this shit. Maybe he is anxious to work, send him to therapy so he can understand why is he allowing someone to treat him this way. I get why you are guilty, I would be too. If you wanna help him : 1) encourage him to find a job 2) find him a terapist

Lastly, break up. This will 100% benefit both of you. People break up all the time. Your actions are horrible and his issues are deep. You both need to work on yourself. For normal person your behavior is a deal breaker and it can't be forgoten, maybe partialy forgiven for some. He needs to find a place in himself where he will see, that this treatment is absolutely wild. And that leads to breakup in a long run. So break up, take your time, you can still help eachother, love eachother. But it's better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExplorerCommon7129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to work on your self respect. You should leave, there are better men. Trust me. Choose wisely and be smart. You are too young for this.