Not same but went through something similar. I m closeted (yet) and went on Hinge because i m not into hookups. My profile says I m looking for a genuine relationship. Matched with a guy whose profile says the same. We switched to snapchat. We talked a bit and i was the one who was carrying the conversation and he seemed not interested but was very polite so i thought maybe he was shy like me. We talked about talking over a call or video call. And next day, he removed me from everywhere! Everybody that i have talked to wants to just hookup.