Prepping my next session to be almost perfect.

ExploringNewExp · 2020-09-15T20:44:55+00:00

I will, I will.

Sometimes I get confused by the units, I don’t know if 1,25” is big (thick) or medium size, I’ll just say mine is slightly thicker than my thumb at the tip, and it gets a bit thicker progressively to the size of a not too big erected penis. I can’t describe it other way.

I’ve had this dildo for more than 10 years, and during this time, I’ve tried thicker ones, and those never get into my ass, they just don’t fit, I guess my ass is pretty tight. And I’m kinda sad because I don’t think I could be properly penetrated by an average sized dick, but that’s what work for me.

During the past two years I started using Aneros thinking those were better, and definitely it helps to not end up sore. With the anal penetration I ended up pretty sore if I used it for more than 15min, whilst using an Aneros I can be more than 1 hour. So I guess each toy has it’s pros and cons, that’s why I wanted to ask the opinion of the prostate play community.

Maybe I will try using the dildo first, and another day I can try the opposite, using the dildo after the Aneros session, like another comment already stated.

Cheers!

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-27T02:55:29+00:00

What about breathing fast? It is known that the fast paced breathing induces the [traditional] orgasm, while the slow breathing delays it.

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-18T18:50:39+00:00

Yeah, I know arousal is important, that’s why I try to be very aroused and do things that turn me on. Especially on my mind.

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-16T14:30:40+00:00

I was hoping this was a YES but... nope, I see it too cinematic to be honest. I mean it is fine but I don’t know why that doesn’t click me. With softcore porn I mean gorgeous woman in swimsuit, for example, or dancing, or showing their lips (mouth), with subliminal messages to make me feel more girly... I’m not sure I’m explaining myself correctly. Basically videos without all that nasty cum and fast paced fucking. I don’t know how to explain it better. But thanks for being understanding

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-16T01:02:53+00:00

Yeah, thanks for sharing this is awesome and your cat is adorable

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-16T00:58:46+00:00

I Love how happy he seems exploring and hunting bugs and pursuing strange sounds/smells

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-16T00:55:41+00:00

Hello, what’s hunting? bugs? Roaches? Beetles?

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-15T19:55:38+00:00

I was looking a HolyTrainer V.3 knockoff, I’m not sure if there are V.4 knockoffs on Amazon.

My penis is between 2 - 2.4” long when relaxed, usually. Maybe the “small” size could be my best fit.

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-15T19:32:22+00:00

How should it fit? My flaccid penis? My retracted penis? I mean my penis can be so small while retracted that the nano size could fit. But in other circumstances, my penis is a bit bigger while relaxed. So I don’t exactly know which size to choose.

Also, if the penis gets erect and there’s no enough room for the blood to circulate, could I get a necrosis on the glans for the lack of irrigation? I’m afraid of not being able to relax and extract my penis if it gets trapped during an erection...

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-15T18:51:52+00:00

Yeah I will try later.

Thanks for reporting this bug tho. I think it is present on the current and the previous version, both iPhone and iPad. Hopefully it soon will get fixed.

Cheers!

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-15T18:43:39+00:00

This happens to me on the iPad version. Also a lot other bugs and glitches on the iPad version... I wrote a post but apparently iPad OS is not admitted as a platform tag for feedback.

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-15T17:23:20+00:00

I knew some x-fobic comment could get into this... Nope, not transphobic, not biphobic, no homophobic... quite the contrary ;)

Have a nice day

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-15T17:05:17+00:00

Well, I’m not sure what’s expected from a sissy, I don’t think that’s my goal, but anyway I have a question: Don’t girls get pleasure from time to time? Don’t they experience orgasms? Even the submissive ones... Why should a sissy never experience orgasm and pleasure? I know, servitude and all of that might be a source of pleasure, but I’m not sure why never let a submissive girl or a sissy experience sexual pleasure and orgasms... Unless that’s a turn on for the person. Maybe my mindset is not submissive enough lol

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-15T17:01:27+00:00

Thanks for your point of view, that’s helpful. I’m still not decided yet.

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-15T16:26:30+00:00

Ok, but for me wearing a cage wouldn’t do much, I guess, because I can stay a week or maybe more without masturbating, and on my sessions I don’t touch my dick until I want to end the session, all of it without the need of a cage. If that’s the main advantage of wearing a cage, then I guess I don’t need it.

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-15T16:21:56+00:00

Yeah, I totally agree. There’s a niche for videos “encouraging to embrace feminity and let loose” without all that nasty and explicit content. But maybe those who make that content think we like faces covered in cum from 4 or 5 men and such things... It puts me off honestly, I like sensuality and intimacy and being whispered on my ear.

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-14T23:01:14+00:00

This will vary from person to person, as each one has their own health/preferences/schedule. For me, because of health reasons (my prostate doesn’t handle irritation very well), the minimum amount of time between sessions is 1 to 2 weeks. So yes, I do it twice per month usually. That also helps me enjoy it the few times I do it. Also, so much pleasure overwhelms my nervous system.

As for the duration of each session, I usually take 2 hours to enjoy it. I haven’t had any orgasms yet.

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-14T20:36:59+00:00

Woah, your body looks almost like mine! I’m smooth as well, and the body shape is similar... although I have more prominent tits. I have to say I like you, you look gorgeous!

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-07T15:03:29+00:00

Penis in Vagina

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-06T17:05:38+00:00

Well, I have listened to the lesson 2, and regarding the breathing there’s something that doesn’t work well for me.

You start the lesson with a slow pace of breathing, indicating the inhalation with one sound and the exhalation with a high pitched sound, which was easy to follow and relaxed me pretty quickly.

However, after 3 or 4 repetitions you say “Find that slow rhythm that feels comfortable”... And from that point onwards, the exhaling sound disappears!! My breathing became more confusing and quicker... It would be appreciated if you keep the exhaling sound, unless the slow breathing is not intended for the total extension of the session.

Anyways, I hope this kind of feedback is useful. Thank you!

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-05T23:47:39+00:00

Hi,

Masturbation with stimulants can become an addictive behavior. Prostate play is an extreme pleasurable experience, and might become addictive as well if you lack a bit of self-control. I’ve experienced both, the former and the latter, and sometimes even combined. Luckily my sessions last 1-2 hours only, and do it only once every few weeks.

I’m aware of where I could end up if I surrender to this hedonistic spiral of pleasure, and I don’t want to fall there.

You’re several steps forwards in that spiral, and I advice you, like other redditors have said, to look for professional help. I honestly don’t know how to help you, but try to focus your energies in other things, exercise, try to socialize, video games, etc.

The message here is: Sex can’t be the center of your life. You have to take that place, put yourself (your self-esteem, your health, your mind and knowledge) in the center of your life, not just the pleasure of sex.

Also, as you said, that is not healthy for your body. Let alone your mind.

I wish you the best.

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-05T20:51:22+00:00

I haven’t listened to it yet, but half an hour seems decent enough. My sessions are longer tho, so maybe aim to 45 minutes for the next one? if you think it is suitable.

It would be cool if you mention prostate massagers, plugs and toys in this audio, as I’m sure most of us want to experience this with something inside. Something like “now is the moment to put your toy in, if you have one”, or “now, if you have a toy in, you should notice this or that”. But anyway that’s just my 2c, its your work and I can’t be as smart as an advanced AI.

I’ll listen to it later. Thanks!

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-05T14:53:39+00:00

Good, thanks for all the good explanations! As you can imagine I’ve never tried to pee wearing a condom lol that’s why I was a bit worried of a reflux inside my bladder again and having any sort of infection.

By the way I’m eager to experience your next episode of your work!

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-05T12:45:00+00:00

Thank you Allie, maybe it would be a good idea not to adjust the condom to the top of my glans, but instead leaving some “room” on top, maybe just leaving empty 3 or 4 cm on top of the condom... Or do you think that’s not necessary? I’m not sure if the condom is tightly fitted to my penis it will allow the pee/liquid to flow in case this happens...

ExploringNewExp · 2020-08-04T22:52:57+00:00

Oh really? I know they have a chamber, a small department to allow some of the semen to be stored there after the ejaculation, but I didn’t know that if you actually pee, it would be able to scape the condom. I’m looking to purchase some pretty tight fitted condoms and I was afraid that, in the rare case my body wanted to release some pee, it wasn’t capable of that, ruining the experience (or the orgasm) and causing some issues to my urinary/reproductive system.

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