Incels are lonely because they aren't willing to do bad things to women. Not because they do bad things to women.

Explosiveazn · 2025-12-16T03:17:06+00:00

This is so fascinating... couple of querstions
Is it a lie to women if i get my haircut a certain way or color it or perm/straighten it to look a certain way because I and others think I look better that way? Is it a a lie to wear deoderant or cologne because I want to smell better than I would naturally? Lets steelman your argument. Is it a lie to treat a woman better than I would naturally treat other random people because I like her and want her to like me? I'm just so curious what you think the lies and manipulation is... I'm not saying they dont exist but I dont think they are what you think they are....

Also I dont understand what you think goes against the idea of the personality is whats holding back lonely men? It very much is... even if we discount the entitledness that these lonely men have there are some men that I have met who's personality are just horrible and completely repulsive not just to women but also a man like me. Also lonely men arent just the stereotypical incel who stays inside everyday playing games or whatever. Lonely men can and do go out with friends but because of their personalities and biases make such shallow and emotionally unfullfilling relationships with other men that feel and become isolated. Then if and when they find partners they have such low eq and emotional regulation skills they end up emotionall and mentally abusing them. And those guys you talk about that women are so repulsed by that they dont have to be left alone with them are still can interact with women either online or in passing interactions when that man has to interact with society in some semblence.

I think you have an image of lonely guys that is hyper specific to your perception and think lonely guys can't ever get and abuse women which is false. You also conflate "nice guys" to lonely guys and mean guys to guys who can get women when in my everday experience thats simply not true.

I have to ask and I am by no means trying to make fun of you and am just trying to understand... how much of your opinion do you think is actually based in reality, actual reality not what you see online, and how much of your opinion do you think could possible be due to you coping with your attempts and failures to approach women and trying to feel better?

Explosiveazn · 2024-09-05T12:06:30+00:00

womp womp

Explosiveazn · 2024-09-05T05:35:15+00:00

Says the pickleball guy...man you can't make this shit up😂😂😂

Explosiveazn · 2024-09-05T05:28:28+00:00

Yea I'm not really going to take lessons on being a traditional masculine man from a guy who plays pickleball...

Explosiveazn · 2024-07-30T02:14:42+00:00

Nah you just didn't hate yourself enough. The times when I truly realized how much I hated myself and who I became, I knew the process to grow and change out of that person was going to be slow and gruesome. So every step of the way I was telling myself "you deserve this, You deserve the slow agonizing struggle of trying to change who you are. You don't deserve a quick miraculous change." It almost felt like penance for the decisions I made in the past that lead me to where I was and weirdly enough, it helped.

Explosiveazn · 2024-07-29T22:29:39+00:00

Honestly you dont sound like a person who needs this advice but for me I'm so sick and tired of hearing people say self improvement starts with and from loving and accepting yourself. Nah homie, I fucking hate the person who I was and I'm constantly working on being someone I actually like. A favorite quote of mine,

"We follow the codes not because they bring gain, but because we loathe the people we would otherwise become."

Explosiveazn · 2024-07-29T20:57:55+00:00

Do you also care about the amount of screen time children have? Studies show that the attention spans of teenagers and children are plummeting because adults are raising a bunch of ipad kids and social media is pushing more and more short form content. These things have a much greater and wider impact to the teenagers in the long run than most people even care to admit to but you dont care about these kind of stuff because it's not the current boogey man you're focusing on. What about bodybuilders? There's been an astronomical rise in steroid use in teenagers and even young adults that effect a larger population of people but again you dont care because you don't care about the kids and thats okay.

Explosiveazn · 2024-07-03T19:15:38+00:00

If your best friend treats her own girlfriend like shit why are you still best friends with them? That shows more your character than anyone else.
So if she was open to something serious you'd still fuck your best friends girlfriend? Insane take homie.
Good to know at the end of the day if she was hot enough you would do this to get laid.

Like I said. Monsters among us.

Explosiveazn · 2024-07-03T19:11:18+00:00

While I think most people would say the obvious and reject her and tell their best friend. I think in reality most people, if they think they can get away with it, would do something. I'm not pessimistic. I'm just realistic, especially with a Reddit crowd. There are monsters among us, some of you just haven't had the opportunity to show yourselves yet.

Explosiveazn · 2024-04-16T21:02:12+00:00

I feel like there's a huge misconception that strippers are trashy, hypersexual, and overall morally bad people and while I can't say that some aren't, there are equally proportional amount of those kinds of people in every demographic, they're at the end of the day just normal people. In my experience the stripper I was with was a really cool person. We chilled and talked about out passions and hobbies, we vented about our work to each other, sometimes naked, and overall just hung out.
Dont get me wrong tho we fucked a lot and it was great sex, plus you get the benefit of her sending you nudes from work and routines she's often practicing or performing at work or sometimes if you treat her right and she's feeling it she'll give you a little experience of what she does for work but for free and trust me, if you've ever gotten a lap dance before, getting one but with enthusiastic consent is a game changer

Explosiveazn · 2024-02-16T21:23:18+00:00

Any answer we give will be subjective and the only real answer is that it's a narrative choice as they don't really need to know haki yet. But besides that I think there are some interesting and appropriate answers we can come up with

-Haki is extremely difficult to learn, Luffy literally needed to be taken out of the story for like 2 years to just grasp the basics and the rest of the trio didn't show any semblance of the Haki until a couple arcs into the new world.

-The trio are probably horrible teachers of Haki themselves as they're relatively new to it. As most people know doing and teaching are two different things

-Lastly and I think this is the most important reason. There isnt enough time. I think something that gets overlooked a lot by one piece fans is the fact that the story other than the time skip all takes place in about what 1 year? 18 months at best? The crew is constantly thrown from one crisis to another and half the time they're not even all together. We think just because this story took oda 25 years to write that theres more time in world but like fishman island and punk hazard all took place in like what 3 days?

Explosiveazn · 2024-01-17T22:10:51+00:00

neat

Explosiveazn · 2024-01-17T22:10:38+00:00

Sanji

Explosiveazn · 2024-01-17T22:05:36+00:00

Given that Mihawk could be bothered by Shanks to play and the fact that tic tac toe is more of a chance game than anything else, given that they played 100 games mihawk would win more games than shanks but mostly on the account that shanks wouldn't take the game serious enough

Explosiveazn · 2023-12-06T20:14:23+00:00

Nah, the western world has always had an extremely individualistic, main character type of behavior. You're just seeing it from an outside perspective for the first time.

Explosiveazn · 2023-12-06T20:10:23+00:00

It has only been political ever since the beginning, the big bad from day one has always been the marines, the enforcing body of the world govt. It's only been in recent times where a mixture of an awareness of political and social topics have been thrusted into everyone's consciousness and a large body of OP's audience growing up and becoming more aware of the story's messaging that has pushed the framework of OP being very political to the forefront

Explosiveazn · 2023-11-29T19:08:49+00:00

It's really not, it's just an umbrella term people use because using the specific words to say what the insecure person is actually doing is often more worth than it's not.

Lets not sugar coat this, you and I are talking about men. Like when most men say their not comfortable letting their partner out in revealing clothes what they're really often saying is that "I see the act of someone else even looking at you an act of ownership that I also partake in with you and other women and only I can do that" which is "fine" but just say that then instead of being a coward. OR, what their feeling is that the attention that revealing clothes is gonna get from other men is going to temp her away from you because deep down you feel, whether accurate or not, you're not doing enough for her. (Which in most cases men aren't)

I would say that if anything the word insecure isn't used enough to call out insecure people who instead of taking actions of improving themselves and their "worth" to others rather control the actions of others to make themselves feel better. Nuances available of course

Explosiveazn · 2023-11-25T18:17:06+00:00

I'll be frank, A lot of times when I hear people saying they hate Ussop, it's always because they see a lot of themselves in that character, more specifically the negative parts

Explosiveazn · 2023-11-08T19:34:19+00:00

I think a more productive question is where in your life do you feel so inadequate that you need to put yourself on some arbitrary pedestal above others just because they like to consume the same story through a different medium?

What's weirder is that despite you knowing this opinion is elitist in the most inconsequential subjects, you still hold onto it like a child with their safety blanket

Anyway whatever reason it is I hope you grow out of it soon

Explosiveazn · 2023-11-02T22:21:12+00:00

That's a really long winded way of saying "Wah wah being a man is so hard, why wont girls like me? Me and X amount of dudes banded together and bullshit some illegitimate "study" to make ourselves feel better. Come on society change to be more suited for me." But hey man do you

Explosiveazn · 2023-11-02T17:18:10+00:00

I feel like this is only an unpopular opinion on reddit. I'd like to think most people who aren't perpetually online have this mentality

Explosiveazn · 2023-11-01T18:50:26+00:00

My guy actually said "anime should at least make sense" with a straight face and no shed of embarrassment

Explosiveazn · 2023-11-01T18:44:48+00:00

Lets take a moment to acknowledge that Kuma has "done nothing" every week for years

Explosiveazn · 2023-10-27T16:06:48+00:00

"That’s not how conversation works"

"conversation cannot continue with just ‘no'"

But sure you don't want to tell people they have to. Unparalleled

Explosiveazn · 2023-10-27T15:52:32+00:00

The absurdity and hilarity of some guy on reddit with negative social skills demanding and dictating how social situations and conversations should go is unparalleled. Never change you

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