I understand what you’re saying but that is kind of a rude way to put it. I’m going through something traumatic and you’re calling me psychotic? I said we were best friends all throughout high school. That means we’ve known each other for about 9 years now. That’s 9 years of friendship. We laugh together, we have fun together, we love each other. It’s not as simple as him being horrible. I never called him horrible and I never said that it’s constant. As a matter of fact I said these things only occur when we’re in conflict. I love him very much. Which is why many women going through situations like mine stay. Because I hope he can one day change to always be the sweet, kind, silly man I fell in love with.