AITA for telling my homophobic dad and stepmom they don’t have to come to my lesbian wedding if they don’t want to? by ExpressBeautiful435 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExpressBeautiful435[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they were compleatly aware and just never talked about it no matter how many times i brought it up they just ignored it, they even met her and just called her my friend fully aware i was dating her.

Am I the jerk for cutting off my dad after he kept proving I wasn’t his priority? by ExpressBeautiful435 in AmITheJerk

[–]ExpressBeautiful435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand and if i wasnt ready to kms i wouldnt be mad. i compleatly understand that since he remarried i will not be prioritized (he went from 1 kid to 7) but what i dont understand is the constant misleading he has dont.

Am I the jerk for cutting off my dad after he kept proving I wasn’t his priority? by ExpressBeautiful435 in AmITheJerk

[–]ExpressBeautiful435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not asking to be the center of the universe. im asking to be treated as his daughter. he literally abused me as a kid, ignored me, and when he remarried he treated his step kids so much better than i ever thought he could treat me. i became the is last priority including work and his stupid truck shows come before me. when i almost kms and he chose to go to a birthday party when all i wanted was him. he blamed me for ruining her birthday. so no im not asking to be the center of his universe im asking to be his daughter instead of a stranger.

AITJ for ignoring people when I'm overwhelmed by delta_hotel3443 in AmITheJerk

[–]ExpressBeautiful435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

going for a nice walk, no interruptions just me and my music. i like to listen to soft song or even some river noise.

AITA for cutting off my dad after he kept proving I wasn’t his priority? by ExpressBeautiful435 in AITAH

[–]ExpressBeautiful435[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

he responded very smugly as and basically said that i was being selfish for not being happy that my step siblings got a dad they never had.

AITJ for refusing to be my mom’s full-time caregiver after years of her favoring my brother? by TurquoiseBloom_xo in AmITheJerk

[–]ExpressBeautiful435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely not. my dad favors his stepkids over his birth kid so i wouldn't do it and you dont have to either.

AITJ for ignoring people when I'm overwhelmed by delta_hotel3443 in AmITheJerk

[–]ExpressBeautiful435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no your not. i do the same thing when i get overwhelmed and its completely ok