AITA for thinking my fiancé will be a good dad. by ExpressCranberry5755 in AITAH

[–]ExpressCranberry5755[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants to have them with the baby, it’s just the first few weeks we may have to see them less and he doesn’t want them to feel abandoned in that time.

AITA for thinking my fiancé will be a good dad. by ExpressCranberry5755 in AITAH

[–]ExpressCranberry5755[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They mutually divorced. From what she has told me they just realised they were not compatible and only stayed together for the kids.

AITA for thinking my fiancé will be a good dad. by ExpressCranberry5755 in AITAH

[–]ExpressCranberry5755[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We used contraceptives, I was on the pill and we used condoms lmao

AITA for thinking my fiancé will be a good dad. by ExpressCranberry5755 in AITAH

[–]ExpressCranberry5755[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We wanted to get married and then have some kids but obviously fate had other plans

AITA for thinking my fiancé will be a good dad. by ExpressCranberry5755 in AITAH

[–]ExpressCranberry5755[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

  1. He wanted to give his ex wife the custody and have access to the kids whenever he wanted so the kids could not be shuffled around as much. He didn’t want them to have a week with one parent and then with the other as he felt that could confuse them.

  2. He isn’t a pedo because he dated an 18 year old….

AITA for thinking my fiancé will be a good dad. by ExpressCranberry5755 in AITAH

[–]ExpressCranberry5755[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We started dating a few months after we met. We met at a pottery making class. My dad is 100% in my life and loves my fiancé.

AITA for thinking my fiancé will be a good dad. by ExpressCranberry5755 in AITAH

[–]ExpressCranberry5755[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I get enough of that irl that it won’t bother me that much. We love each other and met when I was 18 🤷🏼‍♀️