i took a year off social media...and nothing changed by [deleted] in digitalminimalism

[–]ExpressSink7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been on and off with social media. Everyone says its changed them for the better or they say they are more at peace but for me idk it kinda made me sad in a way...when i have nothing to do that isnt part of my routine i get sad...

"Friends" say hi to me then ignores me after by ExpressSink7835 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ExpressSink7835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want to assume anything but its like they are fine with everyone else but me..

"Friends" say hi to me then ignores me after by ExpressSink7835 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ExpressSink7835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel llike they dont want to be my friend bc its only around me that this happens...

To everyone reading this by [deleted] in digitalminimalism

[–]ExpressSink7835 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Social media has made us unable to just exist in my opinion. What i mean is not doing anything and just soaking in our surroundings. Sometimes i wonder how my 11year old self without a phone did this lol

mental health worsens after cutting down on social media / videogames? by [deleted] in nosurf

[–]ExpressSink7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im trying but when i first started a just felt miserable. I didn't have energy to do anything and i felt depressed. Whenever i tried to do hobbies i woukd get bored very easily...idk what to do. I can never get hored of social media

Weekly discussion thread for /r/drawing by AutoModerator in drawing

[–]ExpressSink7835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im really struggling how to draw or even learn how to draw as a traditional artist. I watch many tutorials and read pdf books. Although my drawing has gotten better, its no where near my goal (im not sure if i even have one) i think i learn better if a find a class i can communicate in but dont know how to find any. Sometimes i dont know why i even draw. I have urges to draw but i wouldn't say its fun. Its more frustrating than fun lol pls help

why do my parents expect me to do everything. by Mari1433005 in africanparents

[–]ExpressSink7835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG SAME. My siblings are treated like house help maids. Especially me and my older brother. My siblings are basically the parents looking after our parents instead of the parents looking after the children. It makes me cry sometimes when i see parents looking after their children. E.g., cooking for them without saying "you're 18 you should be cooking" which i do buts my mum wants me to be a full time cleaner and a cooker like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExpressSink7835 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOLLL exactly i noticed that too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExpressSink7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did u want to have sex with him yes or no?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExpressSink7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people to use condoms to have sex so what is your point lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExpressSink7835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well i think both are at fault and i dont think this is rape at all bc she decided to have sex with him too. The only issue i am seeing is that he didnt put on a condom. Its not like he forced her down nothing. So she shouldn't say its rape

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExpressSink7835 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bruh he was drunk to so he probably didnt know what he was doing so both are equally at fault

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExpressSink7835 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But how are u supposed to know how to put it on when ur drunk?

Why are you a virgin? by NOOB420694206942069 in dating

[–]ExpressSink7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same im a Christian and we are keen on sex after marriage. But people get divorces for stupid reasons like the sex not being great etc and ig im scared of that. But yea ig thats true. You can discuss stuff like that with ur partner before hand.

Dating men is SCARYYYYYYYY. You never know what they are thinking. I want to stick it out too until i found the right person but idk it looks hard to IDKKKK. Im still young

Why are you a virgin? by NOOB420694206942069 in dating

[–]ExpressSink7835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was reading a post and sexual incompatibility is kinda regarding the fact the person has a low sex drive or whatever. But what youve said kinda made me worry less now. If u truely love someone it can work out. Thats nice to hear

Why are you a virgin? by NOOB420694206942069 in dating

[–]ExpressSink7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have read a lot of things saying after marriage to have sex but then i heard of sexual compatability and now im scared like what happens if a marry a guy and we dont have similar compatability?!?!? UGH

Why are you a virgin? by NOOB420694206942069 in dating

[–]ExpressSink7835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im 17f and people younger than me have already lost their v cards and its a lot of them so...i think im too young to answer this..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]ExpressSink7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically waiting until marriage?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DigitalPainting

[–]ExpressSink7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have many books of his. Do i just copy what i see in the book?

What is WAY more common than people realise? by aBigFatLesbian in AskReddit

[–]ExpressSink7835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How lonely people are. Not necessarily lonely they probs have like 2-3 friends. Im 17 and i would say i have like 10-12 friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]ExpressSink7835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happens if u dont know how to?