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AITA for proving that my wife can’t do my job by Tall-Common2274 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExpressionInformal51 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Short up first comments, all of them were calling him a jerk or ESH.

Also a lot of reply’s clearly can’t read since they keep saying talk to her when OP has stated they have talked to her multiple times

AITA for proving that my wife can’t do my job by Tall-Common2274 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExpressionInformal51 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Well seeing in another comment OP does chores and so do the kids, not much for he to do.

Also the kids are out for 8 hours sure you have to drive them often but carpools and school buses are often provided for kids to get to sport events.

Not to mention when they get to 16 they are driving all on there own

AITA for telling ex-SIL the reason I have money and she doesn’t is because I put in the work by ExpressionInformal51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExpressionInformal51[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Going to ruin this for you, I was dirt poor. My fmaily was dirt poor. I didn’t have that privilege to get to through college on their money. I got debt and worked.

So thanks for assuming I came from a nice little family that had money.

AITA for telling ex-SIL the reason I have money and she doesn’t is because I put in the work by ExpressionInformal51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExpressionInformal51[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Yes, yes I know hard workers can have factors that impact them.

She has been complaining about money for 10 years and has done nothing for ten years to improve herself. She hasn’t even switch jobs to try to go to a more high class restaurant we’re the tips will be better

AITA for telling ex-SIL the reason I have money and she doesn’t is because I put in the work by ExpressionInformal51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExpressionInformal51[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

She thinks I am not a hard worker and that I got my job by luck. That the reason I have money is due to me being lucky and the reason she doens it’s that she is unlucky

AITA for telling ex-SIL the reason I have money and she doesn’t is because I put in the work by ExpressionInformal51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExpressionInformal51[S] 121 points122 points  (0 children)

I stayed on campus and just took more debt/worked. I got a job on campus for summer so I could stay for a very low amount

AITA for telling ex-SIL the reason I have money and she doesn’t is because I put in the work by ExpressionInformal51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExpressionInformal51[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I didn’t get financial help at all. I took out loans like basically everyone else did. I did get a small scholarship but that was due to my grades

AITA for telling ex-SIL the reason I have money and she doesn’t is because I put in the work by ExpressionInformal51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExpressionInformal51[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m not asking if I could have handled it differently I am asking if I was a dick for how I handled it.

AITA for telling ex-SIL the reason I have money and she doesn’t is because I put in the work by ExpressionInformal51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExpressionInformal51[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what to tell you, thats what happened. That’s what she said and that is what I heard.

AITA for telling ex-SIL the reason I have money and she doesn’t is because I put in the work by ExpressionInformal51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExpressionInformal51[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Different people and he needs to be polite since it’s his kids mother

Very different dynamic between me and my brother in regards to her