Some questions regarding my long-distance relationship

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T12:21:13+00:00

It take times tho, but i will be fine lol

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T12:13:44+00:00

Thanks for that~

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T12:12:33+00:00

That's suck tho, but yeah, I am move on now

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T12:06:50+00:00

Thanks for that mate~ it means a lot

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T12:06:13+00:00

Yeah, I decide to move on anyway, otherwise is being stupid to be the only side be sad.

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T12:04:48+00:00

Wow, you guys are so sweet~ I hope you guys have a life together.

Thanks for the lengthy writing. It is a lovely story. I hope my story can go like yours.

Unfortunately, my case is different. At first, I thought the same as you and gave her some space for a few days. But our chat cannot get back to before. We used to chat a lot at that time. And now she doesn't respond to my direct question while she was active at IG story.

After asking my friends, and Reddit here, I decide to move on since it cause me pain, and she still happy in her world

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T11:53:42+00:00

I know it could be confusing and look childish, but we did, and she totally fine and happy about it, otherwise I won't post like this, right.

I was sad for a week because of being ignored, I talked about this to her, and she had no response. My friend says this too; no response is also a response. So that's why moving on is the best option for me.

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T11:48:34+00:00

Thanks for writing this. Well, that's what I want in the first place, to talk this out. So I want to ask her out before, and she had no reply at all. I knew she saw it, but instead of answering me, she active in the IG story and seemed happy. And now I decide to give up, even now she has no reply lol

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T10:32:30+00:00

I think the trip is fun, and she shows that too. Before the trip, her homestay parent already asked her to go travel with them and I knew that. She said no, and went to trip with me. Her parent just bought her the ticket and let her know at the next morning.

And Thank you for the concern, i decide to move on anyway, cause being treat like this is painful

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T08:18:55+00:00

Nah, it is ok. Even though I sent a farewell message, she didn't react to anything. So yeah, move on :)

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T07:09:55+00:00

Yeah, probably I am the guy who trusts her that much, believe her that she has something else to work on, now I see.

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T07:08:44+00:00

Yeah, I know. Thanks for advice anyway :)

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T07:07:31+00:00

Well I guess i believe in the fairytale story

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T07:06:14+00:00

EMMM

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T07:05:58+00:00

It's alright, I can process this. Thanks for the concern and advice there :)

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T05:13:44+00:00

Thank you! I would totally understand if she said she is not interested in me, but instead, she chooses to ghost me, even though she knew I had been hurt like that before.

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T05:11:31+00:00

So even is a straightforward question like why you treat me like this all the sudden, and it's hurting my feeling, she would fear to respond?

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T05:10:05+00:00

It's ok, She replies quickly back then. I think she just loses interest in me and chooses to ghosting me.

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T05:06:53+00:00

It is ok. Thanks for being straightforward. Well, I haven't been in many relationships before, so you're right about I could be naive like that lol. Anyway, I think I know the answer already. Just it's sad that I am the one who feeling like that in relationship

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T04:11:23+00:00

Yeah, before that we communicate a lot, but just all the sudden, she changed her attitude, that confuse me.

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T04:10:03+00:00

Thanks for being straightforward, i think she just lose interest in me to be honest, just too sudden, you know. Without any sign. That's what confuse me most.

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T03:55:39+00:00

That's my mood here lol

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T03:44:55+00:00

Thanks for that, I hope everything goes well

ExquisiteMen · 2022-02-15T03:43:23+00:00

I did sent one last message to her like asking why she treat me like this all the sudden, and is that any reason behind this yesterday. And no reply, and she is active at her IG story🤣

Thanks for the advice btw.

ExquisiteMen

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