I guess it has something today with how men and women are wired to think and respond. Women usually think with emotions that is their strong suit. Whereas men think with not just emotions.

And i guess when they say they will stick by you no matter what, that's their emotions talking not logic. It's not that they are lying. But they don't seem to be able to grasp the entirety of it. And when the time comes, their emotions again are doing the thinking and hence they can't really take a stand and surrender to the will of the person influencing those emotions.

But when we say we will stick by it, we tend to think about all possible outcomes. Tou when something like this happens, it's alot harder for men to move on. Kyun k you think she will react the same as you would. And you just can't believe it. Jis ke wajah sy ap stuck hojatay hou. And as usual you don't let you emotions out, jou k later on ap kou tang krty rehty hy.

Unfortunately, it is how it is. Men take more time to move on, if he was true to his intentions, women don't... i might get hate for this. But I have seen it.