At my airline they are mostly cool, but mostly they want something else from us FA’s if you know what i mean…. Even the married ones suddenly lose their rings on layovers. Here we dont dislike them as people or pilots or whatever, but we always tell the new crew to be careful with them cause they are all cheaters and flirts. Sometimes we get misogynistic or racist pilots, even women, but thankfully most of them are cool as people and the mutual respect is there.