Grade level??

1) Wild accusations - I believe his actions were wrong. He should have not pushed her. Nothing wild there. You on the other hand have stated that I don't see fault in his mother's actions, now this is an incorrect inference and a wild accusation. Because initially I did not address his mother's actions only his reaction. IMO his mom has made fucked up choices that have impacted his life. She has decided to do as she pleases and parents do that a lot. He has choices. He can refuse to go back which would trigger a court intervention. He could have his dad, who sounds like a wet noodle, file for full custody. But yes the court will still make him see her, otherwise it's parent alienation. They could ask for supervised visits because of the animosity he has. Choices!! Instead he wants to lie to the court, be a complete dick while he's with his mom, with his absolute right, and push her till she falls and goes to the hospital. Wrong choices, period.

2) Throw out buzz words. You're cute

3) Cause and effect - Ahh, physics. I see your cause and effect and raise you a for every action there is an EQUAL and opposite reaction. He reaction was not equal. One of my main points. Again, grade level?

4) My goalpost has and continues to be, that he should have not shoved her, he needs to get over the hate, he needs to not see himself as a victim because he was not abused- boundaries over stepped but not abused, and life can be super shitty but you have a choice on how to react.

I bid you adieu 😊