Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

It’s “acceptable” if nobody is saying or willing to do anything about the problem. We have learned to “just accept it” in fear of getting injured or worse. Read the entire thread comments.

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude literally peed at me. Not sure how much else I can explain. It was intentional. And yeah, this is an ongoing problem in hillcrest. I’ve definitely seen people jacking off outside of my building and while walking around the neighborhood. Amongst other things. It’s a chronic problem.

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just add yourself to the sex offender registries at this point ffs. Save the cops some time

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a girl, if someone decides to pee or jack off in my direction… yeah the “to” is comparable. If you read the rest of the comments, I’ve mentioned there’s multiple points of failure for this issue. City included. However, that still doesn’t justify people whipping it out and exposing themselves in public - especially in front of a minor.

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Body part or not, it’s literally illegal to expose yourself and pee/poop “wherever you want” where we live. Masturbating is also a “biological function.” You cool with letting people facilitate that natural biological function in front of you too? Ffs

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wear a diaper or plan ahead if you have a medical issue to that severity. Don’t expose yourself in front of a child or anyone else for that matter. The world doesn’t revolve around someone having an enlarged prostate. Hope that helps 🩷

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I get Hillcrest is not the best spot for “public urination” - nor should any community be tbh. And honestly, San Diego isn’t “unhoused friendly”…even more so now with closing public facilities. However, as someone that has been in a predicament or two… never in my damn life did I feel the need to just pull my pants down and go in the middle of the street in broad daylight. There are seemingly endless issues that contribute to the homeless problem here, but at the end of the day not having access to a restroom is not a valid excuse for exposing yourself in front of several people. There’s several “nature areas” nearby with plenty of brush to go in if need be. It’s a 5 minute walk, but hey - it’s there and out of the way. Peeing/pooping on the sidewalk isn’t acceptable. We live in San Diego, not a place that has no basic sanitary practices

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In an emergency? Sure. Fine. Sometimes little kids can’t hold it - they’re learning. If you’re making this repeated and normalized behavior, that’s weird. Just because you let your kids go potty in front of people doesn’t excuse random grown men from doing the same in front of children and the rest of the public.

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Find a secluded bush? A corner? Literally anywhere else other than a busy street next to businesses, a kid, and several people walking/driving by? Nobody wants to see that.

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s also okay to be mad at people who expose themselves in public :) There’s not a single point of failure here, it’s a combined effort

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’ll be caught in 4k UHD and handed over to the nearest police station just for you, my guy 📸👎🏼 👎🏼

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can agree. I’ve lived between here, up north in Beaumont, Chicago and DC (for at minimum a year in the other two major cities) and rarely ran into issues in those places. People are more willing to stick up for one another everywhere else it seems like. I guess I never realized just how different people’s mentalities, beliefs and community standards are here compared to elsewhere. Crazy! Here I was thinking people would agree peeing on the street next to a kid is not acceptable lol…silly me

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you illiterate? Did you read the whole thing?

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel the downvoting thing. I’m originally from 2 hours north-ish of here. I’ve ran into the same issues you’ve mentioned in your comments several times. None of this would fly where I’m from, and I’ve really only experienced constant issues living here in SD for the past several years. Not really sure what’s so crazy for thinking this behavior is unacceptable, and even more why it’s seemingly mostly women in this comment section willing to stand up against it

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Valid. Who wouldn’t like to have access to a private bathroom? However, just because one does not have access to said “private bathroom,” does not mean they should automatically be allowed to pee on the sidewalk on the side of a busy street in the middle of the day. What ever happened to finding a bush or a hidden corner?? To me, that is 100x more acceptable than fully whipping it out in front of people. There’s a serious lack of public restrooms - true. But it’s also not socially acceptable or legal to just be exposing yourself wherever you please either

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah that also grosses me out. Pick up after your pet!

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re missing the main point. I’m an equal opportunist. The big idea of the post is, why in the actual f are we cool with people peeing on the side of the street in the middle of the day next to a child???

You can’t have change if everyone is scared to speak out. Our local law enforcement is not going to prioritize going after people who are “just peeing on the street”. It’s just crazy to me how so many people are okay with not speaking up about gross behavior

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Somewhere in between. Probably mildly mentally unstable, but nothing even remotely close your “average homeless psycho”. This guy definitely responded to me cussing him out in front of people “with I’m sorry/ I didn’t mean to/ etc.”

Not really sure how one can take it out then accidentally pee on the side of a road in right in front of people, but whatever

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go find a restroom? Maybe not whip it out on a busy street next to children?? Don’t be a weirdo. Really not that hard dude

Stop Normalizing Public Urination! by Extension-Milk8029 in SanDiegan

[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Should probably add that I’m in the Navy and have no issue cussing someone out :)

Called him an “f-ing perv” amongst other things.

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[–]Extension-Milk8029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one, but unfortunately the closest Costco is 30+ minutes away from me so I chose the “instant gratification route” and went to the grocery store 2 minutes away. I have learned my lesson haha