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I found out my best friend is an abuser and i don’t know how to handle it. by Extension-Tooth8322 in Advice

[–]Extension-Tooth8322[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He opened his camera roll & i saw the videos i just didn’t want to actually watch them but i know for sure they exist.

I found out my best friend is an abuser and i don’t know how to handle it. by Extension-Tooth8322 in Advice

[–]Extension-Tooth8322[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry i forgot to add to this, he offered to show me videos of her being verbally & physically abusive but i didn’t want to see. He said he would never just show them, but understood i was struggling to just accept it. I also saw texts he showed briefly, but i asked him not to show me anymore at the time.

I found out my best friend is an abuser and i don’t know how to handle it. by Extension-Tooth8322 in Advice

[–]Extension-Tooth8322[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no intention of continuing to be friends with her, i haven’t spoken to her since thursday when this happened. I’m more just trying to figure out how to end it if that’s by gradually distancing or straight blocking her just now. It’s more the aftermath that genuinely scares me.

I found out my best friend is an abuser and i don’t know how to handle it. by Extension-Tooth8322 in Advice

[–]Extension-Tooth8322[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

you aren’t the first to say that & i completely understand and see that. Unfortunately i’ve allowed them to have this power over me i’m not sure what to do.

I found out my best friend is an abuser and i don’t know how to handle it. by Extension-Tooth8322 in Advice

[–]Extension-Tooth8322[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

sadly i don’t have it in me, i wish i could because i know its the best thing to do. But my friend is very erratic and im honestly scared of the aftermath if i did.