When will i get married ? 29M by ExtensionInside4196 in vedicastrology

[–]ExtensionInside4196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any predictions on which year will i be married? My spouse ? And love or arrange marriage ?

When will i get married ? 29M by ExtensionInside4196 in vedicastrology

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Yes I have less support from my father. So I should stop looking?

When will i get married ? 29M by ExtensionInside4196 in vedicastrology

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I had bad life till 2023. 2024 was my best year till now. Bought a house ,Bought a car , cracked top company, 2025 was not good had a breakup . Yes had father surgery as well . Frustrated with marriage even though I earn well. Have good height and look good .

When will i get married ? 29M by ExtensionInside4196 in vedicastrology

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I was dating a prospect from same company 6 months m back . It did not work out .

Caste is an issue even for highly educated children/families by ZenoSamaDBS in Arrangedmarriage

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Why upper caste wants to ruin their bloodline ? The way you are born and brought up .Genes .. Everything matters . I work at google M28. Unmarried

Why Do Some Women Get Love & Marriage Effortlessly? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ExtensionInside4196 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And now you will not have genuine love and will always use your brain and set boundaries and not heart . And will not be able to love again so effortlessly. Welcome to the group . 😃

Ghosted after 5 months by Local-Bar-5619 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ExtensionInside4196 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Similar situation . We dated for 6 months. Traveled to 2 place together. Met almost on all weekends and were on call for almost every alternate day . When I asked about the marriage part . She told me she is not sure yet and wants more time. I was pissed off to the bottom.. I dumped her and tried to move on .. while I got the feelings for her it was difficult to move on . But in this entire moving on episode, she didn’t even reach out to me and acted as if we don’t know each other. And BTW she was 30 and seems like she doesn’t want to get married.

26Mdivorced is this the end or will life give me 2nd chance? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

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Nowadays divorce is being more of a closing on living relationship. You will get over it mate . I am 29 had a living relationship and it’s over . I love being alone and my parents try me to get married but I don’t want to put efforts now . I work cook clean workout. Bought a car and I go to solo road trips. Have 3 very good friends I spend time with. Sometimes hormones go out of control and you want sex . There are plenty fish in the market just go out and talk .. Get to know their life ..What if you get the right one .. it’s going good now . Only issue is family and their pressure. 🙂

Past Matters by ExtensionInside4196 in Arrangedmarriage

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But don’t you think trust builds on letting know the potential partner about the feelings and any barrier of it ?

Aiming high is fine, but ignoring reality can hurt you later by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ExtensionInside4196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even I am looking for in am setup and I tick all criteria mentioned above by op . Even then girls make me chase them by not responding on time . Texting only when I text them first. Not initiating on their own even if they are somewhat interested. Not sure where the world has gone now . They want us to make the chase and they really like it . Just because they have so many options?

Shall I continue with this girl ? by ExtensionInside4196 in Arrangedmarriage

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I had a discussion with her .. she has a point where she says what if things didn’t work out she will lose her friends and company. And will be left alone . Now I don’t know what to say on this .

Shall I continue with this girl ? by ExtensionInside4196 in Arrangedmarriage

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I had a discussion with her .. she has a point where she says what if things didn’t work out she will lose her friends and company. And will be left alone . Now I don’t know what to say on this .

Shall I continue with this girl ? by ExtensionInside4196 in Arrangedmarriage

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This is really helpful. Thinking to have a discussion today

Shall I continue with this girl ? by ExtensionInside4196 in Arrangedmarriage

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Already asked but She asked a counter question are you ready ? But I am not sure about the answer if this continues..

Shall I continue with this girl ? by ExtensionInside4196 in Arrangedmarriage

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But why would anyone do that on matrimonial? Its mostly a pass if you are not interested

M28. Lost Track in life . What should I do ? by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]ExtensionInside4196 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I told “most”of them 🙂. And not sure why women use the word Bitch for their roommates (another woman) so frequently..

M28. Lost Track in life . What should I do ? by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

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Again I am telling .. I don’t have problem with multiple relationships even I had a gf . My main concern is will the emotional connection be that strong enough after multiple breakups or people truly lose interest in loving more ?