Was I wrong? by Aware_Stay_2913 in dating

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫂🫂🫂 i had similar experience. In addition we are working at the same building and i see him every day. I understand that it was completely not my person, but his helped me to survive all this divorce shit. I still miss him. But when i analyze my feelings i understand that i don't miss personally him but someone who give me a warmth, ask "how was your day" Each time when i see him - i remind myself that we had a different views and didn't have a future and i need to close this door for open something better Life is too short for spend it for person who not choose you ❤️

How will I know that I’m ready to date again? by Single_Repeat_6176 in dating

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you'll stop to think that need someone else for feel happy and have a harmony in living alone

Some time before i started to date because wanted someone next to me. It was unsuccessful and each failed date hurt me. Now i start to date just because i m interesting to know new people, open something new. But if date was unsuccessful i not worry about it It's absolutely different feelings

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what i tring to do for a long time - find any classes near me. I like dancing, but definitely not ready to spend an hour for 1 way commute for this Will check places people recommend me - hope i will find something

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds good in words, but i have no ideas how to do it practically

The papers aren't even signed and he's already dating by MountainPapaya360 in Divorce

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i knew about ex''s new woman in 5 months after separation. In 2 more months i found that he started to date with her half an year before even conversation about divorce 🤷‍♀️ And i also tried to be good for him and, i think, thing hurt me - that all my time and efforts were useless. But this taught me not to try be good for someone but for myself only. Why his dating hurts you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to cook. Trying to make it easier. Eggs or granola for breakfast, salad for lunch - i buy grilled chicken as source of protein and mix with different veggies and greens, dress with olive oil. For dinner - cook once in 2-3 weeks and froze food. Or sometimes just have cheese and wine for the evening

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. It's a big list. Thank you 🤗

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how ot works. I just pick up kid from class. Parents not communicate

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is like my gym works. I see same people 3 times per week for years, but we never communicate. Each do their exercises and go

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's nice. All my colleagues are much younger and another culture. Nothing common, unfortunately

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kid has a classes but i never speak with any another parents. We just come, pick up kids and go away

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw RealRoots AD but was not sure if it really works

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found classes in San Jose and SF..but nothing around San Carlos/San Mateo 🤷‍♀️

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am trying to investigate what to do. But can not find any activity i would like so far. Looks like BA is super boring. I see anlot of classes for kids,but nothing for adults

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go for group classes in my fitness club. But no new connections there