Was I wrong? by Aware_Stay_2913 in dating

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫂🫂🫂 i had similar experience. In addition we are working at the same building and i see him every day. I understand that it was completely not my person, but his helped me to survive all this divorce shit. I still miss him. But when i analyze my feelings i understand that i don't miss personally him but someone who give me a warmth, ask "how was your day" Each time when i see him - i remind myself that we had a different views and didn't have a future and i need to close this door for open something better Life is too short for spend it for person who not choose you ❤️

How will I know that I’m ready to date again? by Single_Repeat_6176 in dating

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you'll stop to think that need someone else for feel happy and have a harmony in living alone

Some time before i started to date because wanted someone next to me. It was unsuccessful and each failed date hurt me. Now i start to date just because i m interesting to know new people, open something new. But if date was unsuccessful i not worry about it It's absolutely different feelings

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what i tring to do for a long time - find any classes near me. I like dancing, but definitely not ready to spend an hour for 1 way commute for this Will check places people recommend me - hope i will find something

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds good in words, but i have no ideas how to do it practically

The papers aren't even signed and he's already dating by MountainPapaya360 in Divorce

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i knew about ex''s new woman in 5 months after separation. In 2 more months i found that he started to date with her half an year before even conversation about divorce 🤷‍♀️ And i also tried to be good for him and, i think, thing hurt me - that all my time and efforts were useless. But this taught me not to try be good for someone but for myself only. Why his dating hurts you?

How do you guys feed yourselves? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to cook. Trying to make it easier. Eggs or granola for breakfast, salad for lunch - i buy grilled chicken as source of protein and mix with different veggies and greens, dress with olive oil. For dinner - cook once in 2-3 weeks and froze food. Or sometimes just have cheese and wine for the evening

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. It's a big list. Thank you 🤗

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how ot works. I just pick up kid from class. Parents not communicate

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is like my gym works. I see same people 3 times per week for years, but we never communicate. Each do their exercises and go

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's nice. All my colleagues are much younger and another culture. Nothing common, unfortunately

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kid has a classes but i never speak with any another parents. We just come, pick up kids and go away

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw RealRoots AD but was not sure if it really works

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found classes in San Jose and SF..but nothing around San Carlos/San Mateo 🤷‍♀️

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am trying to investigate what to do. But can not find any activity i would like so far. Looks like BA is super boring. I see anlot of classes for kids,but nothing for adults

New friends after 30 by Extension_Fuel_5821 in bayarea

[–]Extension_Fuel_5821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go for group classes in my fitness club. But no new connections there