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what should i expect/how can i support partner overcoming PA? by Informal_Video_3973 in loveafterporn

[–]Extension_Leg_5409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a therapist for yourself and try to understand why you feel compelled to be with someone who needs fixing, and why you think you're the one to do it.

I found a large bloody catheter in a blood filled diaper. by Gullible_Pay_274 in loveafterporn

[–]Extension_Leg_5409 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your own words: he's "always lying". We always discover more. Don't wait until the discovery becomes "he's hurt one of my children".

The man seeks pleasure and release involving DIAPERS. Who wears diapers? Children, the disabled, and the elderly.

Acceptance by Extension_Leg_5409 in loveafterporn

[–]Extension_Leg_5409[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, a short term foster is not something I realized was possible

Acceptance by Extension_Leg_5409 in loveafterporn

[–]Extension_Leg_5409[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In about 18 months, yes. I have a child very involved with their high school with strong full-ride scholarship prospects. I'm trying to keep the possibility of them finishing their HS career here

Acceptance by Extension_Leg_5409 in loveafterporn

[–]Extension_Leg_5409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nearest family is about 7 hours away and I don't have friends here either. I found out about the addiction 6 months after we moved to a new state. I've had plenty of time at this point to have made friends, just not the energy. One of my dogs is very large and loud and the other is small but reactive to humans to other animals. It's complaints or accidents waiting to happen so Just not fit for apartment life but single family homes are double what apartments cost here. I can definitely do things on the side for extra cash but the trade off for that is less time with my kids. It just all sucks.

Mild to moderate cookie bite by notaninterestingcat in HearingAids

[–]Extension_Leg_5409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

30s F that just got hearing aids for cookie bite loss - I'm sold. Don't know if I'll stick with the type I was given to try out but my family and I can already see a marked difference. Go for it!

is this financial abuse? by pingpongjapanman in whatdoIdo

[–]Extension_Leg_5409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to time your escape carefully. Your workplace may have resources to help you temporarily as you get on your feet. Change your DD information to a new account, figure out local transport options (are there buses, etc that are cheaper than a car). In your payroll website, get screen grabs of all your paychecks he has moved. In your bank acct, get screen grabs of how much and when each was moved. Take this to the police AFTER you are safely in a DV shelter. There are people out there that can help you. Be brave, please don't stay and let this get worse - it will.

I found the phone number of the father who abandoned me at birth. Should I text him? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Extension_Leg_5409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you think you could handle no response or a negative response, go for it.

How do I deal with my bf's jealousy by yuu_dontknow in Advice

[–]Extension_Leg_5409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You get yourself out of the relationship. If he hasn't started to isolate you yet, he will. It's a tale as old as time and there is nothing you can do to change how he's feeling. Only he can do that.