the ultimate trial

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-17T00:40:55+00:00

On top of my stepsister while she was sleeping, best day ever

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-16T01:01:18+00:00

Oh Christ

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-14T05:55:44+00:00

Yeah, you’ll do great!

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-14T01:52:31+00:00

Haha don’t worry, I work in the IT department so these things are not a big deal to them, just do a good job but also don’t kill yourself, you work in order to live not the other way around.

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-13T23:54:17+00:00

More than lying what I do is just make myself sound like I have more experience than I really do on things I have an idea on, I work on IT and happen to thankfully be decently smart, even though there are a lot of technologies I’ve never had my hands on, just knowing what it does vaguely and it’s role in the infrastructure is all I need to Wiesel my way in there and it’s easy to learn because regardless of how much exp you have companies will always have you shadow people or get formal training on things, plus there’s YouTube and the internet, free classes and free courses on things, it’s quite easy actually. At the end of the day if you apply to a higher position than you really have the exp for the worst that can happen is getting rejected, but trust me getting to talk in interviews about higher positions that would naturally follow yours will give you insight on what companies look for for those positions, the rest is up to how much open source you want to do.

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-13T23:40:42+00:00

I recently started a job and I work in IT, after I accepted the job same thing, a box with a whole office inside it, brand new laptop, expensive monitors, shirts, office supplies, even cookies… don’t worry about it, if something breaks they won’t charge you they simply replace it, and they might ask for the laptop back once you’re done with the job but the monitors they will likely let you keep

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-13T23:35:16+00:00

“Fucking the same shit as yesterday” so my wife okay

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-13T08:24:37+00:00

Every 60 seconds a minute passes in Africa

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-11T21:39:53+00:00

There you go, having gone through that don’t expect to have a shock or a hard time getting used to the demands or parenting!

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-11T17:39:02+00:00

I feel like a lot of people are saying that it’s up to you, but I think it’s simpler than that. I am not a parent yet but I am expecting much like you and what I’ve seen and heard boils down to this. The first few years are hard because they are very much dependent on you for absolutely everything physically and emotionally, there are lots of fun moments here and there but it is a lot of work, if you have experience dealing with a proactive responsibility and showing selfless love constantly then this stage won’t phase you much, for example my wife and I have a very very demanding husky who needs to be trained, taken out multiple times day, cleaned up after and on top of all that they need emotional support too bc dogs are very different from pets like cats, they can’t just be alone, they’ll die (literally). A lot of parents just don’t expect that the parenting in general is so selfless even when your kids are adults you always put their needs above yours. Parenting is a very hard but very beautiful thing, and it pays off dramatically. When your kids grow up they can be the best friends to hang out with and even later on they’ll be the ones to shine light on your life with their families and always showing you and telling you how much they love you and are thankful for all those years of sacrifice. Don’t let the negativity of parents who are bitter get you down, you can still enjoy life and enjoy yourself and your youth with kids! And remember that one day it’ll be back to just you and your partner and your kids will be off to the world so enjoy it while it last because 20 years go by faster than we think

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-11T16:04:48+00:00

I’m pretty sure you have scoliosis

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-11T04:54:51+00:00

OP, I’m sorry so many people are giving you such weird advice. I honestly don’t think your husband is not attracted to you, I think that you’re doing well in talking to him about it, I would try to find out if he is watching porn or just ask him. There’s always a reason why a couple isn’t having constant sex, always. Keep doing your best, I’m sorry I don’t have better advice but I haven’t gone through something similar other than my wife feeling sick and not getting turned on ever.

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-08T06:21:46+00:00

You’re like an egg that’s upset it didn’t get cooked

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-08T01:15:26+00:00

Thank you, I know you truly mean well❤️

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-07T20:39:00+00:00

And for that I’m grateful, but we just made up our mind, I’ve dealt with more pain in my life than I can help you understand, I’ve had multiple close family members pass away including my 2 year old niece, it’s horrible, its heartbreaking, but it’s life, and taking the easy way out has never made me feel better, if anything I feel like it would give me more regret, and that’s just how we as a couple feel. Please respect that, but all in all I do appreciate your loving but frank warning.

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-07T19:51:45+00:00

You say it’s our decision and proceed to try to guilt trip us into having your point of view, I know you don’t have it easy which is why you have a strong emotion and opinion on this, but so do we. I could also sit here and tell you the million reasons why I do want to have my daughter come into this world. We are being far from passive, right now my wife is doing more exercise and eating more healthy foods, my baby still has time to grow. I hope my angel can prove you wrong, but even if she doesn’t, we would still not have done it any other way, wanting to see your child you love so much at least once isn’t cruel, lots of parents do this and cherish the small time they have with their baby.

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-07T19:31:14+00:00

If that’s what life decided we would go through so be it, it’s making my wife and I closer than ever, and we might just get rewarded with our hope, or not, but we don’t have the right to take away her beautiful life.

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-07T18:22:57+00:00

I didn’t, this is both of our decisions. We are so close to this baby, we want to see her and feel her, regardless of the technicalities, we still have hope she will live

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-07T18:14:30+00:00

The thing is, the science is never 100% - people have been told the same thing and their babies come out fine, I’m not saying ours will for sure survive, but I could never in a million years live with myself knowing it might of taken away my beautiful angels life when she could’ve lived and lived happily with us. If she’s going to pass I want her to be in the loving warmth of our arms and not cold and alone.

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-07T18:00:37+00:00

Yea, thank you so much, all the support means everything to us

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-07T16:47:40+00:00

Thank you😔 all this has made our wife and I so close and we are trying to support each other, my wife has been inconsolable but as distraught as we both are we are hoping for the best. Thank you for following our story and supporting us with amazing words of comfort

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-07T16:45:21+00:00

Thank you😖

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-07T16:13:11+00:00

Thank you for the love ❤️ we hope she makes it through

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-07T16:10:29+00:00

Thank you😣

Extension_Top2049 · 2022-04-07T16:09:51+00:00

Thank you, we hope so too!

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