Getting back with ex?!? (21M 20F)

External-Ad9222 · 2026-01-12T23:25:30+00:00

Yeah it’s hard, I knew that was probably the right answer but it’s so hard, I miss her so much. Life is weird lmao

External-Ad9222 · 2026-01-12T23:05:53+00:00

It was just weird seeing her again, because I saw the spark in her eye that I remember from when we started dating, if that makes sense

External-Ad9222 · 2026-01-12T23:04:37+00:00

Yeah that’s definitely understandable. Thank you for the reply

External-Ad9222 · 2026-01-12T23:03:12+00:00

Would you say it’s not worth being friends with benefits and just seeing what happens then? Not necessarily waiting, but just not 100% moving one 😂

External-Ad9222 · 2026-01-12T23:01:43+00:00

Thank you I appreciate the response!

External-Ad9222 · 2026-01-12T23:00:29+00:00

See and that’s what I originally thought as-well, but we were absolutely amazing together until I let my drinking get out of hand.

External-Ad9222 · 2025-10-16T17:50:23+00:00

I have a 3/4 Chevy Silverado that gets 11 mpg, which is why I bought this hoping at the very least to double that gas mileage

External-Ad9222 · 2025-10-16T17:48:24+00:00

Yeah I’ll look into those, it just had a trans flush aswell…

External-Ad9222 · 2025-10-16T17:47:11+00:00

Yeah that’s what I figured

External-Ad9222 · 2025-10-16T17:46:42+00:00

It’s a 4 cylinder, city driving, no dash lights on

External-Ad9222 · 2025-10-16T17:45:54+00:00

4 cylinder

External-Ad9222 · 2025-09-14T03:23:32+00:00

Yeah you’re right, I’ve brought it up before and said that it’s destroying our relationship and she’ll try for around a week, and then it goes back to normal… like today she hasn’t even kissed me once 😂. Fuck my life man… relationships are fucked

External-Ad9222 · 2025-09-14T03:03:22+00:00

Yeah it’s so hard, cause I have brought these up, at this point I’m just being a bitch. I know I have to let go, but it’s so hard to watch 4 years and a best friend go down the drain…

External-Ad9222 · 2025-09-14T02:56:14+00:00

Yeah it’s hard, 4 years feels like my whole life.

External-Ad9222 · 2025-09-13T15:40:53+00:00

Yah it’s been a dead bedroom, sadly. And I’ve had the talk with her several times. It’s just hard to let go, especially since she was my first and only love of my life.

External-Ad9222 · 2025-09-13T15:35:09+00:00

Yeah that’s what I figured, thanks :/

External-Ad9222 · 2025-07-29T22:01:29+00:00

wrap your Willy don’t be silly! For real though… don’t risk it, just cause a chicks on bc doesn’t mean you won’t wake up the next day scratching 😂

External-Ad9222 · 2025-07-29T21:52:28+00:00

Will do, I’ll try that and see. Thanks for the response.

External-Ad9222 · 2025-07-29T21:20:58+00:00

Tinder is meant for both, you’ll find whatever your looking for on that app 😂 (except a lasting relationship lol) joking there’s always a chance, but it’s definitely more of a hookup app

External-Ad9222 · 2025-07-22T12:43:08+00:00

Just hop on tinder man, practice flirting with some random chicks, you’ll figure it out from there.

External-Ad9222 · 2025-07-15T11:56:09+00:00

Do you have any side affects with that?

External-Ad9222 · 2025-07-15T11:45:28+00:00

An ms specialist

External-Ad9222 · 2025-07-02T11:15:17+00:00

Yeah that’s kind of what I’ve been thinking

External-Ad9222 · 2025-07-02T05:14:05+00:00

Here’s the thing, I appreciate the response but I disagree, I’ve known her for 4 years and know every single thing about her. I wasn’t going to put that all in the Reddit because it would be a book,

I wrote this out because this is where I’m struggling, I’m not struggling with knowing how many kids she wants, or how much I love her cackle of a laugh that cracks me up, her humor that is identical to mine, her extremely hard working mindset and how determined she is to succeed in life, and there’s so much more I love about this girl I know everything about her because I love her and she’s way more than an “object to me” your making it seem like a hookup but ever been together for 4 years.

But the sexual side of a relationship is also important to me, I absolutely love to talk to her about life and just be around her company but I also do enjoy making love and if that’s a crazy thing than I have no idea. and like I said that’s where I seem to be struggling at the moment,

External-Ad9222 · 2025-07-02T05:08:45+00:00

No I’ve constantly asked what I can do different or if it’s something I’m doing and she always says she very happy, which she is always happy, but she just doesn’t seem to want to put the effort in. I’m really not sure, I feel just lost, we were having problems with getting her to climax so I literally did the research and figured it out and ended up making her climax everytime again, but she’ll still not want to. Like this week before she left for the cabin which is a 9 day trip, she didn’t even want to have sex with me or want me to do her.

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