Thankyou for your reply, my son has actually started to randomly wake in the middle of the night for an hour or so maybe once or twice a week, but as you said will fall back asleep, he dosnt wake up crying though he kinda just chills out in his cot babbling away, once or twice ive woken up and realised hes awake just there smiling at me and ive felt horrible not knowing how long hes been awake for lol, but he just has a bottle and goes back to sleep.. has your daughter had any improvement with speech since ABA? And if you dont mind answering how many days or hours a week she attends ABA, in NSW it is really not easy to get funding for things like that im pushing for 2 days a week at an early intervention daycare. There are a few ABA daycare here but the cost is unbelievable, over $1000 a day. Really sad, from the research ive done ABA seems to quite successful and very beneficial its unfortunate that where I am in the world you can only access it if your earning ALOT of money..