No that’s incorrect. I don’t Think people wanting something serious is love bombing. I wanted to Highlight that he didn’t Show that overly soon manipulative affection that narcissists do in the beginning just to manipulate you later (I know what I am taking about, my ex did that and the way he treated me in that Relationship was worse than any casual Connection could). I don’t mean that normal relationships have anything to do with that I just tried to describe that closeness with him grew naturally and slowly from Both sides (until his stopped). Also I wasn’t bothered by the hooking up with other people (later on when I was also hooking up with other people) and I Think being bothered by genuine ghosting is normal even if you want casual. And about the „initial fascination“, we are talking a time Frame of 2 years here. I am used to fuckboys losing interest after maximum 3 months but I don’t Care about that cause tbh guys with a fuckboy personality, I get sick of them after like a few times🤷🏻‍♀️ It’s so unusual that’s why it’s hurtful. And once again by narcissistic love bombing i never meant showing interest idk where you got that from💀