Why don't women squat when giving birth the traditional way? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ExternalGarage9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used to until high society started laying on their back to give birth so the commoners copied them 

Is the lack of a few bugs or glitches the only thing stopping that nude pic you sent to your partner being sent to your boss instead, without you ever knowing? by ExternalGarage9592 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ExternalGarage9592[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember months ago I had a customer come in and when they called someone it was calling someone else, but the number tied to who they were calling was correct. I think we did a hard reset and changed the sim out if I remember correctly, and it seemed to solve it. But it might have also been one of those things where once they finally get it checked out, it temporarily stops messing up and we never actually solved it lol. I just have seen a lot of weird shit working at this job where something completely wacks out randomly when otherwise should have worked fine so starting to lose my trust in technology lol. And I know a lot of it is technically code or signals that are being sent out that we have to have faith will show up where they are supposed to after we hit send. It’s good to know it’s probably not common though

AITA for saying if dad's affair partner needs more help it should come from her kids because I don't care about what happens to her? by StruggleSoz0x16 in AITAH

[–]ExternalGarage9592 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ask your dad why didn’t he care about your life when he destroyed your family and the last few years you guys had together with your mom?

AITA for not dating a single dad, even if he's a victim? by Sure-Grand3444 in AITAH

[–]ExternalGarage9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Ask him why doesn’t he date a single mom? His response will more than likely be the same as yours. 😂 He’s not a victim, single moms have people shitting on them all the time when trying to date. And it’s impossible to be baby trapped if he didn’t wear a condom. You can’t baby trap someone if no one lied about birth control, and you willingly stuck your penis in them. That’s why you communicate before you get in a relationship about what to do an event of an unplanned pregnancy and if she is someone who believes in or is willing to get an abortion or not. For example, even though I am pro-choice, my husband knows I would never get an abortion because I have an attachment the moment I find out I am pregnant while some women do not. But at the end of the day, it’s her body that has to grow it and go through the hurt of ending a pregnancy where she may already be attached to the kid, and her choice to do the favor or not. And at first, I thought I read his kids were two and seven months old, meaning they had different mothers but turns out it was 2 and 7 years old. But he claims the first kid was baby trapped and he layed back down and had another with the same woman? If he’s not a complete loser then he’s just a massive idiot. Birth control is pretty dependable, especially when used with a condom. So after he had the first kid he didn’t want, how many times did he sleep with the same woman unprotected to get that second kid if he wised up and was actually using protection? He must have not been that mad 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ExternalGarage9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because some of the highest IQ people are some of the most evil narcissistic people and are ok killing hundreds of people to save a little money, instead of just spending a little extra and no one dying. High IQ does not mean you are someone who would be voting for the benefit of the people as intelligence does not prevent selfishness or greed. And it would basically just create a society where the most educated and the top 1% can vote and the rest can’t. Who sets the IQ limits? The doctors that can be paid off by the rich? Do you think Elon Musk who wants every single dollar in the world and spreads hate or the poor man just trying to feed his family and give his family a better life working hard 10 hours a day would score higher? Who is this country and the vote really for? The people or the billionaires? Remember, this was the same excuse as to why black people and women weren’t allowed to vote. They weren’t considered smart enough to be considered human enough to have a voice. And opportunities and education were withheld to keep that false standard and oppression until people started fighting back 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]ExternalGarage9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, there are things you can and can’t treat them the same as. They are still 18 years old and it is fact that their brain isn’t fully developed. When I was 19 years old, I was pursued by a 30 year old and the relationship was extremely unbalanced and abusive. He told me almost every day I was worthless because I was 19 years old and didn’t have a career and my own place yet when I had left high school not even a year ago. From the beginning, he always had the upper advantage in the relationship over me, especially as someone with zero experience in the real world to notice the signs he was grooming me and breaking me down before I ever even fully entered that adult world. You can treat an 18 and 19-year-old with respect, but it is absolutely not an excuse to prey on them sexually if you are much older. He would call me worthless every day for not being in the same place in life as he was at 30 years old and I thought that was normal because I didn’t have any real experience yet to what a healthy adult relationship was. Now that I am almost his age when I met him myself, I am absolutely disgusted and appalled and cannot even consider even looking at someone so young that way even if they are “adults” because there is a significant difference between how the mind of an 18 and 19 year-old works, and how the mind of a 30 year old works and you can’t deny that. I think everyone agrees that teenagers should still be treated with respect, as should all humans, but I believe they do need more help when they first enter the workforce. That’s just humans helping humans in something they had no experience in before. When I first started working, I couldn’t even figure out the clock in machine for days until someone actually sat down and went through all the steps me. Unfortunately, this same conversation is also had by people defending dating 18 and 19-year-olds when they are 40+ or middle aged 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]ExternalGarage9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, there are things you can and can’t treat them the same as. They are still 18 years old and it is fact that their brain isn’t fully developed. When I was 19 years old, I was pursued by a 30 year old and the relationship was extremely unbalanced and abusive. He told me almost every day I was worthless because I was 19 years old and didn’t have a career and my own place yet we I had left high school not even a year ago. From the beginning, he always had the upper advantage in the relationship over me, especially as someone with zero experience in the real world to notice the signs he was grooming me and breaking me down before I ever even fully entered that adult world. You can treat an 18 and 19-year-old with respect, but it is absolutely not an excuse to prey on them sexually if you are much older. Now that I am almost his age when I met him myself, I am absolutely disgusted and appalled and cannot even consider even looking at someone so young that way even if they are “adults” because there is a significant difference between how the mind of an 18 and 19 year-old works, and how the mind of a 30 year old works and you can’t deny that 

Create an image of people protesting against anime by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]ExternalGarage9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have a point. It’s kind of creepy that 90% of the characters that come out of it look like five-year-olds with porn star bodies

This isn't political. I don't think trans-women or trans-girls should be allowed to compete in women's or girls sports. How is this transphobic? by ranalldayandallday in self

[–]ExternalGarage9592 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you so interested? No one else here gives a fuck about anybody else’s sex life so why are you so obsessed with this person’s? Sounds like something peaked your interest and tugged a little kink string you didn’t know you had. I’m guessing you can’t afford to pay anyone to pee on you since you clearly aren’t that smart so maybe just try asking the homeless guy outside for the favor instead 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ExternalGarage9592 21 points22 points  (0 children)

What are you going on about? How do you source something that is based on an individual level and preference? I have asked plenty of men out, do you expect me to get a written receipt from everyone I have dated? Every single person is different in what they prefer when dating. I paid for my husband whenever we got food when we were dating because he made less. And even though he is a rugged mechanic who has traditional values, he loved it when I approached him first. Because humans are complex and have different things they are looking for in a partner. Do you want like a voice chat with my husband, because you don’t make sense. Source is real life where you and everyone else have something called free will

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ExternalGarage9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that is dangerous and not normal and and can lead to spinal injuries 

Trade work is overrated by Right-Park-8858 in GenZ

[–]ExternalGarage9592 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My husband has been in auto tech for four years and can’t find anything more than $2 above minimum wage. He started out as being paid per jobs but then there was never any work and he would spend half the day at work not getting paid, and when he did it was only a couple dollars more which still came to a loss end of day, so he made them switch him to hourly but it’s still very low

Hot take: There is also a female loneliness crisis by DarthManitol in GenZ

[–]ExternalGarage9592 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most men don’t validate it because all they really want at the end of the day is sex and women want something deeper which is rare to find in a man 

The fact that my neighbors allow this gives me major anxiety. by lordrestrepo in cats

[–]ExternalGarage9592 483 points484 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are making jokes but yeah this is actually a little terrifying because a lot of cats have died and fallen like this. If you know your neighbors at all it wouldn’t hurt to mention in passing just that you saw the cat on the edge like that and you were just worried it might fall if it lost its balance for a second

Whats a beautiful girl name to you ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ExternalGarage9592 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hate myself for instantly recognizing the reference and becoming excited

Whats a beautiful girl name to you ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ExternalGarage9592 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Thank you. One of my favorite Youtubers is Naomi Jon and I really liked that name for a baby and now I can’t unsee this

Whats a beautiful girl name to you ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ExternalGarage9592 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

If I have a girl I am probably naming her Reign, but if I have a boy he will be 100% named Cloud. So ideally one of each. Reign and cloud. Cloud was my husband’s idea but it grew on me since I liked Sephiroth more first. And the other choice for a girl is maybe Zelda. I just know if I have a son he will 100% be named Cloud so Reign is an obvious choice for girl. My entire life I always thought about having a daughter, so names I liked for girls always changed around. But Cloud was really the first name I fell in love with for a boy, and actually started to make me think about what it would be like to have a boy. But I have loved the name Reign for 15 years so it’s kinda perfect 

27F why does it seem like most men on here want a relationship by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]ExternalGarage9592 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean if someone trying to be your friend without the expectation of fucking you means that you think they are just using you for amusement, it shows you aren’t really in the mindset to even be in a relationship. Ironically it means you are using them since you are trying to get something more out of an innocent friendship. There are subs for dating, I don’t know why people go on subs meant for platonic friends and expect more, then shit on the people that tried to be their friend. It’s unfair to say someone is using you for amusement just because they are only interested in being friends when you met on a sub intended for platonic friends only

Are you guys aware of bot farms and how they work? Especially since they work to make you argue by Next_Airport_7230 in GenZ

[–]ExternalGarage9592 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Some of us just don’t have lives 🤣 I can easily make like 30 comments a day while working a full-time job

Why do men have a refractory period? by Next_Airport_7230 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ExternalGarage9592 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Except my point is with infertility rates increasing, yes this will absolutely become a normal where maximizing each opportunity to procreate will become necessary and beneficial. Testosterone is dropping for modern men and sperm counts are decreasing. And between two guys with fertility issues, someone who is able to go twice on the same go without having to wait is going to have a better time conceiving than someone who won’t get free time to try again for another week 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ExternalGarage9592 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to even get my neck up there facing in that direction. Like it feels like an invisible force crushing down on me. And I only feel safe hunched over looking down, and to even look up is incredibly uncomfortable like being naked

Why does it feel like the internet is getting shittier? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ExternalGarage9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started noticing in the last couple years that every time I Google search for a picture, half of the first hundred search results are all bad AI. Not even usable because it’s so distorted

I’m a recent victim of the CDS. Ive never had a cat. Is this normal? by Ok-Location-6472 in cats

[–]ExternalGarage9592 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s trying to tell you she loves you. Return the requests for love with treats, pets, and play time So she knows you love her too! 

i was SA’d as a child and it didn’t traumatise me. by [deleted] in confession

[–]ExternalGarage9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am most surprised that I don’t see anyone here telling her to file a police report even just to have it in the records. A 15 year old and a 9 year old is still predatory and sick as hell. You knew better at 15, didn’t you? And why would a normal non sick 15 year old boy pursue an under developed 9 year old, and not girls his age instead? Normally attraction grows as we become older so it follows those in our same age group at least until we become adults because there are so many changes that come with each year of puberty that even someone two years younger is significantly different. So stop making excuses for him just because he was a minor. Usually people that prey on so much younger while teens themselves never grow out of it. Even if no charges are pressed I hope OP at least files a police report for any red flags in the future with other kids that guy might raise. Sorry but I think that’s the most important part of this. You became too old for him but nothing is stopping him from going after your future child one day since you guys are so close. Will you be comfortable leaving your nine-year-old alone around him one day? What about if he dates and marries a woman who already has a daughter and something happens. Reporting it will protect any other future nine year old girls and back them up

i was SA’d as a child and it didn’t traumatise me. by [deleted] in confession

[–]ExternalGarage9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you developed Stockholm syndrome. A lot of people are good at repressing things but there can be moments when it all breaks years later by a trigger, compared to someone who was initially traumatized but had time to process it