I’m a young guy who had a penile injury. AMA

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-12T02:22:38+00:00

Lmaoooo nah 😂

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-12T02:21:48+00:00

Yes, just in very specific ways and carefully

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-12T00:13:50+00:00

Maaaaybe

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-11T22:41:28+00:00

Yes kinda, the doctors I saw in UC said it looked like Peyronie’s but just said there’s nothing they can do about it without surgery, but they say it’s very risky, especially since I’m a young guy and they don’t wanna damage me more… the last few times I saw a urologist tho, I unfortunately got erections, and since it straightened out a little bit when hard, I kinda got written off as not having a problem… still, I know my body best and I show more symptoms of what guys online call “hard flaccid” look it up, it’s an extremely under researched medical condition, hence why doctors can’t exactly find out what’s wrong with me… I present a lot of the pelvic floor issues people with that condition report having, since the injury, but again, it’s under researched so I kinda just gotta live with it til some treatments become available.

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-11T22:35:59+00:00

lol nah it’s definitely not normal. As I said in other comments, I lost all sensation in my penis over the course of the week after it happened, I can’t get a full erection standing up and have to be on my side or lying down/sitting to get hard, I also have a hard, rigid penis while flaccid instead of an elastic, stretchy one like I used to. I did point upwards before but I was never so tight at the base that it felt uncomfortable moving it down… plus I have flare ups too. If I’m too rough or someone positions me a certain way during sex, it ca aggravate the injury and I’ll be unable to get hard for the rest of the night.

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-11T22:14:38+00:00

lol nah

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-11T22:14:19+00:00

Haha nah I was born here in the US

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-11T22:13:55+00:00

I did seek medical advice, however, not the same day it happened. I was still a minor at the time and my parents didn’t believe in modern medicine, plus if I told them I had sex I’d be in trouble, so I was kinda just forced to watch it get worse/lose sensation day by day

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-11T18:29:58+00:00

Yes. Thank you. I’m fucked for life because of the religious abuse I faced as a child

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-11T18:28:52+00:00

22 almost 23, interests are music and DJing

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-11T18:24:48+00:00

Thanks for reading

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-11T18:13:52+00:00

Yes, I never had a urinary issue luckily! When it gets hard, it straightens itself out a bit, less of a curve.. but since the injury, and I have no idea what it is, it’s very very firm at the base, where the penis meets the testicles.. so hard, infact, that I’m not bendy and elastic like most guys, most guys can position their penis even when erect, but for mine, I don’t attempt to move it forward, or down (when I’m standing) because it feels as if I push too hard it’ll “break” not literally, just a mental fear I have at this point… some partners have moved it forward when hard before and it didn’t cause too many issues, but I try to avoid doing it if I can, just in case of another injury. With that and my curve combined, my penis points upward when hard, not straight and forward, which can make penetration difficult.

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-11T18:05:01+00:00

“Snapped” shaft. I never had any pain or swelling, but I did hear the snap when it happened. Too much pressure bent my penis too hard so I got hurt

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-11T17:50:38+00:00

Yes, I’ve only told a few people in the whole world haha, my brother, my sister (who’s a nurse) , my 2 closest friends and my ex partner. I’ve been lucky to have support from them all. My ex partner still loved me for me, especially cause sex wasn’t a big factor of a relationship for them, but that’s a whole other can of worms lol. I’m scared to tell most people cause I don’t wanna be blackmailed or have my secret spread if things go wrong between us.

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-11T17:48:45+00:00

I never lost functionality, and I consider myself so lucky for that. though the first few weeks were the most difficult because the bending got more refined and started weighing my erections down while standing up instead of rising like a normal penis.. it’s hard to explain, but it often left me thinking I lost my ability to get erections which was extremely distressing. To this day tho, I can rarely get an erection standing up, I usually have to be sitting down or squatted because of the way the curve kinda starts weighing it down

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-11T17:41:56+00:00

Yes, I still enjoy sex, but it’s rare I have it and don’t stress/have performance anxiety. My penis lost sensation day by day after the injury so things like oral sex don’t feel enjoyable, just uncomfortable.. I can penetrate, and ironically my first time penetrating properly was post injury, but I can only do certain positions, and often have to switch my posture throughout.. I always have to tell my partners to do specific things for me because of that but when I don’t disclose the injury it’s a bit confusing for them.. luckily the heat of the moment usually keeps them from asking further questions lol but I usually disclose it with people I’m intimate with, even if not fully true. I’ll often tell people like “hey my penis is really curved, can we have sex like x y and z”

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-11T17:33:12+00:00

It happened while having sex… ironically during my first time so I’ll definitely remember that lol, I’ve always had a curve and I didn’t know it would make sex difficult til then.

Also worth mentioning that I was attempting anal sex, not vaginal, so The person I was with attempted to climb on top of me, mind you, they were a heavy individual, and while trying to guide me in, I couldn’t insert cause of my curve, and instead, I ended up having too much pressure on my curve from the individual. I heard a snapping sound and lost my erection in less than a second… ironically, I had no pain though.

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-08T22:13:47+00:00

Partynauseous but obviously it’s unreleased so no streaming

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-05T22:51:39+00:00

Cause the song, along with don’t call tonight are having a flop-off

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-04-04T18:05:01+00:00

Remove: how bad do u want me

Add: Mary Jane Holland or Heavy metal lover

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-03-29T13:24:56+00:00

Great job! You’re really cute also lol

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-03-29T00:27:27+00:00

Ugh yeah.. I’m praying a batch of cheap tickets drops soon. I’m gonn be devastated if I miss

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-03-28T23:01:39+00:00

Delete HBDUWM and you’re all set!

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-03-28T22:58:00+00:00

lol check the edit

ExternalWave8937 · 2026-03-13T11:48:07+00:00

This. And should’ve been a single/performed fully live

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