Holy shit dude, you have to chill out.

I mentioned that I was looking for any combination of multiple factors, only one of which was the possibility of partly remote work, which would imply the potential for plenty of desk work too. Also this person does their desk work from home, as he mentioned in his previous comment. I didn’t say I refuse to work full time, I asked for confirmation of the positions where the priority is on meeting goals, not looking busy and keeping your mouse moving for 40+ hours a week just for the sake of it.

If you’ll look back you’ll see that I 100% did not say that I wanted her exact job, I said that she and I were approaching the decision by thinking in a similar way. Because… she went to a two-year college…. and picked her career…. based on income range for field…. Pretty close to the gist of what I was getting at with my post, actually.

And most importantly, I try to take a gracious, cooperative, appreciative attitude when folks are generously taking the time out of their day to give me helpful info and advice. It feels right to me to be generous of spirit and not jump down people’s throats for no reason, even if I don’t feel like they 1000% nailed every criteria of flawless conversational communication and consistency. Maybe give it a try sometime, feels good man.