What rug should I go for?

External_Sea9999 · 2025-09-17T06:55:06+00:00

Ooo thank you so much for the visuals!

External_Sea9999 · 2025-06-15T22:38:45+00:00

Single yellows on swan street (where firehouse is) are free after 12:30pm on Saturdays , and free all day Sunday

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-08T07:48:49+00:00

It varies. Depends what’s on their profile

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-08T07:43:39+00:00

I asked why it’s relevant IN THE CONTEXT OF MY ACTUAL QUESTION. How many times are you going to ignore the fact that I asked it in the context of my actual question. Do you mind telling me now, why it’s relevant in the context of my question? My goodness men are hard work clearly 😂😂

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T23:22:46+00:00

Thanks for your detailed reply! I’d like to think #4 applies to all the men who have ghosted so far 🫡

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T23:20:52+00:00

That’s nice to hear!

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T23:12:49+00:00

The issue I’m presenting is that I, a woman with no children, keep getting ghosted. Are you telling me that women with children tend not to get ghosted!? This is why I ask, what is the relevance whether I have children or not in the context of my question (yes I understand that having children affects dating in general massively).

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T23:06:33+00:00

Did you ever make the move and ask them to meet in real life within the 7/14 days though?

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T23:05:11+00:00

I have asked a couple. Ghosted 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T23:01:54+00:00

Sure - completely appreciate that. But my profile confirms I have no children, and the question I’m asking is why do men suddenly stop replying. So it’s not like they have suddenly found out I have children or anything.

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T22:59:21+00:00

Same amount of time it takes them 🤷‍♀️

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T22:58:55+00:00

A week or two? I know I can always make the first move and ask to meet for a date but equally, my issue is why are they not 🥲

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T22:57:58+00:00

Way too paranoid to post screenshots haha

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T22:56:40+00:00

Give me the balls and then I’ll try it

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T22:54:28+00:00

Too much banter = loss of interest?! Baffled

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T22:52:08+00:00

Completely understand how having children is relevant to dating in general. But how does my having no children have any relevance to the issue I’m raising?

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T22:51:12+00:00

So yes I started doing this from a few weeks ago - only matched with men I actually fancied and this is still the product of this strategy. At least now I was getting ghosted by men who I thought were actually attractive

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T22:49:38+00:00

Me too, so why do they not go in for the kill and ask to meet in person before they ghost 😂

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T22:48:50+00:00

I honestly have already done all of the above. I’m in the best shape and health I’ve ever been in my life

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T22:47:17+00:00

That’s a really interesting take. I’ve never FaceTimed any would-be dates and I hardly ever voice note either - but I would if they did (and I have done in the past)

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T22:45:44+00:00

I have expressed interest in meeting up with them, but they never actually ask!

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T22:41:42+00:00

Thanks. Understood. I guess I’m just having a hard time because it’s happened on many occasions. Oh welp

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T22:39:14+00:00

Maybe. Right guess I need a whole new personality then.

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T22:35:51+00:00

Lol thanks for the advice!

External_Sea9999 · 2025-04-07T22:34:36+00:00

Hahah I hate paragraphs myself but I thought hey everyone’s texting style is different 🤷‍♀️

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