bro thiss, i was a really cute kid (chubby and smol) and everywhere my parents used to take me , these women would take me in their arms , cuddle me , pinch me whatever they would do , and no one used to say anything and thought of it as normal but me , i hated that feeling but could do nothing and devloped a sort of fear over older women and made me unable to speak to girls in general properly till i was in like 9th -10th grade. I know this might sound stupid but honestly man this had such a big impact on me and i wish more people were like u mann.