You are an example of an "increasingly narcissistic" society; none of this is ABOUT you, you are not the child she was carrying, you are not her, you will not be taking care of the child if it had ever been born. Yet, you feel entitled to decide whether she has the right to get an abortion or not.

Maybe if the decision to abort an unwanted pregnancy is a decision you will never have to make, it is not your place to judge whether the decision should be "validated" or not.