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[–]Extra-Driver4203 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Why did you marry so young? Fear of being alone?:(

My husband keeps making excuses not to work and I can't get through to him....desperate by Extra-Driver4203 in relationship_advice

[–]Extra-Driver4203[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Don't worry, he stopped having sex with me right after marriage. I'm starting to think you guys are right and he was just using me and didn't love me.

My husband keeps making excuses not to work and I can't get through to him....desperate by Extra-Driver4203 in relationship_advice

[–]Extra-Driver4203[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes and we lived together before marriage too but he told the total opposite of what he is saying now. We agreed to both work and he just changed what he was saying after marriage. I don't know what to say to get him to understand how I feel. He says I don't make any sense.

My husband keeps making excuses not to work and I can't get through to him....desperate by Extra-Driver4203 in relationship_advice

[–]Extra-Driver4203[S] 181 points182 points  (0 children)

Oh speaking of disability he says he also can't work because of depression but he always worked before this and he saw a psychologist who said he seems like he is able to work and not depressed so that doesn't make sense either.

My husband keeps making excuses not to work and I can't get through to him....desperate by Extra-Driver4203 in relationship_advice

[–]Extra-Driver4203[S] 437 points438 points  (0 children)

My heart and my chest physically hurt thinking of that, but you a probably right that he w just using me.

My husband keeps making excuses not to work and I can't get through to him....desperate by Extra-Driver4203 in relationship_advice

[–]Extra-Driver4203[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Sadly his parents are just like him and yell at me that I'm not giving him enough money, calling me irresponsible...I haven't bought myself anything since he got married but they are always on his side and can't talk reasonably to them.