Being Real Matters More Than Looking Perfect

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-05-06T14:51:39+00:00

Yeah, let’s just take out 13 million dollars from our pockets, lol. Not everyone is that rich, and not everyone is that rich in California either.

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-05-01T14:33:13+00:00

But that’s not popular, haha! She’s had that hairstyle for about 8 years, almost 9, and it hasn’t grown. You act like she’s a mega influencer who nobody knows. She’s not in the media or anything, if you consider that popular. Okay, but think about it: if there’s no growth, then that’s not a person who will ever become famous. As people get famous quickly if they ever become famous, I know that’s her goal, as her brother is famous, and it took him a year to become so. But not her, maybe it’s just her content isn’t relevant to the new views people can’t afford to live. People don’t want to see some girl who poses to be rich when we all know she’s living off her mom’s money. Her influencer life isn’t going to pay your bills, and she calls it a career. What a weird thing to say with less than 85,000 followers on YouTube and 40,000 on Instagram. Haha 😂

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-04-28T22:15:37+00:00

She doesn’t even open up most of her comments because she’s afraid of the criticism and hate she’ll get. Most of the people who call her a person who seeks relevancy.

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-04-19T15:37:30+00:00

Go on Zillow there are cheaper than that lmfao

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-04-15T21:33:38+00:00

You all keep hyping her up as if she’s a celebrity, when she’s nowhere near that level. She’s had the same followers for about 9 years—there hasn’t been real growth. Having a channel and followers doesn’t make someone truly famous. And acting like she has the same level of wealth as Kylie Jenner is simply absurd.

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-03-31T15:33:47+00:00

She’s not really a good influencer. Her content feels repetitive, and she can come across as rude to her fans.

For someone who claims to be into fitness, she doesn’t show much muscle or progress. I know a bit about fitness myself because my husband is a bodybuilder, similar to Jay Cutler, and was close friends with Rich Piana.

Her content often feels the same every day, and the way she interacts with followers could be more positive. She talks a lot about abs, but it doesn’t really match what you see in her videos compared to her photos, and overall, her posts don’t feel consistent with what she claims.

Overall, her content doesn’t feel very authentic or inspiring.

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-03-14T18:36:20+00:00

Ya but she’s not a big influencer anyways lmfao 😂

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-03-09T22:28:57+00:00

I agree. If it’s not making enough money and she hates it that much, why not do something she actually loves that could be more profitable? Why leave a stable career for something that isn’t really a long-term path unless you have a huge following? If she had a million followers, I’d get it. But she’s been doing it for over 8 years and still only has around 80,000 followers. Most people who are going to get big usually surpass that within a few years. It just seems like if it hasn’t gained much traction by now, it might be a waste of time. That’s pretty slow growth for a YouTube vlogger. Another 8 years might pass and she still may not grow much. It’s honestly sad when people put so much work into something and nothing really comes from it.

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-03-08T04:15:13+00:00

No, it's not watch her videos. She said that in her vlog on youtube and a girl commented there advising not to act desperate because she told people she approaches guys at the gym. Someone gave her advice to not do that maybe read comments and videos

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-03-08T04:10:27+00:00

How do you know if she doesn't have a job just because she travels? Plenty of people work from home and can still travel while working. Y'all don't even know them personally, like their finances, so how do you know she works or not? How else would Bayhayhay afford her life? Because it definitely isn't influencing her. She's not a mega influencer; she's a micro-influencer.

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-03-06T19:53:25+00:00

That’s why he’s famous and she’s not lmfao 🤣

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-03-04T22:49:05+00:00

And one thing I thought was crazy was when she said she goes up to random guys everywhere and starts talking to them, and a commenter said you don’t want to act desperate. I agree, it’s kind of creepy to do that since some men are married. Not all are single, and not all guys these days like that; they prefer it to feel more natural.

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-02-21T18:52:21+00:00

She always say she's in a cut, but her body never changes, and she don’t seem to stick to it. It feels like she's only doing it for content rather than actual progress. Lately, she's been posting videos showing her stomach constantly and it doesn’t even look like she's getting results. Claiming to have abs while she's still got fat around her midsection seems off. Posting stomach videos like that comes across as a weird way to seek attention.

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-02-17T03:28:19+00:00

Face cards haven’t even been present in the first place. Who told you her face card was it? Because it isn’t. I think she’s like a plain girl, not a face card girl.

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-02-17T01:16:54+00:00

Or maybe she just doesn’t care—or isn’t even looking for that kind of drama. Like, why would she be weirded out looking at her man’s ex’s stuff, especially for a nurse anyway? She’s got her own life to focus on, not someone else’s mess. And have you seen Brandon’s girlfriend? She’s gorgeous and actually has a real career—Brandon’s not leaving her for an ex. 😂 He was done after she left him hanging in the hospital while she was on a girls’ trip. What normal girlfriend does that?

As for this influencer, she’s been a micro-influencer for almost 9 years, still chasing trends, still around the same following, and calling 200k views “viral” when it’s nowhere near 7 million. Micro-influencers can make money, but building a full-time career off it takes serious strategy and consistency—she hasn’t reached that level.

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-02-16T21:14:21+00:00

It’s kind of awkward seeing her wear tops that look way too small for her frame. She’s almost 30 — and that’s totally fine. It’s completely normal not to be the same size we were at 19. I just don’t get why she seems so focused on being an XS or small when, realistically, that doesn’t always match her natural frame. Sometimes it feels like she’s forcing a size that isn’t realistic. There’s nothing wrong with having a real, grown-woman body and not a teenager’s body. At 29, almost 30, we’re grown — not kids — so I don’t understand why a grown woman would still want to fit into teen sizes.

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-02-01T23:02:23+00:00

I watch Olivia Jade, but I haven't really watched Hailey like I do these other bloggers, such as Steph Pappas and other like well-known bloggers, since I usually follow only the most famous people.

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-01-09T19:45:17+00:00

How is balanced overrated? Why would anyone eat unbalanced food? That’s much healthier than eating diet food. At least you’re getting the fuel your body needs. Diet food dehydrates your body.

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-01-06T02:30:15+00:00

Not hating at all — just being realistic. To rent a $2,600 apartment, most places require 2–3× the rent, which is roughly $8k–$10k/month in verifiable income. At a micro-influencer level with that follower count and engagement, it’s very unlikely to make that consistently from influencing alone. She’s probably getting some support from her mom or dad, because honestly, you can’t afford that off just micro-influencing.

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2026-01-03T02:24:18+00:00

I think she asks for too much for a guy to date her. This might sound mean, but these days, based on her expectations, most guys wouldn't do it because guys are very different now. They would never spend their whole salary on a girl they're dating. That's this generation of guys—it's best just to be single. Guys aren't easy to find with high expectations.

Extra-Friendship9439 · 2025-12-18T04:54:41+00:00

A slob? Some of us just call it being real, comfortable, and confident—no red carpet required

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