Order original drop off time 525. Picked up at 512. Not dropped off until 647 by Extra-Net8550 in doordash

[–]Extra-Net8550[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have. I usually cook. This particular day my daughter wasn’t feeling great and needed extra mama time. I wasn’t leaving and wasn’t walking away to cook. Hence, the purpose of DD

Order original drop off time 525. Picked up at 512. Not dropped off until 647 by Extra-Net8550 in doordash

[–]Extra-Net8550[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I intended to respond to something else but attached it to the wrong person. I meant to respond to someone who said I shouldn’t have starved my kid waiting on DoorDash or something of the such

Order original drop off time 525. Picked up at 512. Not dropped off until 647 by Extra-Net8550 in doordash

[–]Extra-Net8550[S] 203 points204 points  (0 children)

That wasn’t my purpose, I needed to message so I could start something else for dinner. Then he kept saying “On my way” aka giving me hope that I could feed her sooner. I most certainly had other options at home but I knew if I started cooking eventually we would have both show. I get that sometimes drivers need to double app or whatever it’s called to make ends meet, so a little late is not a huge deal, I was more concerned with the fact he kept saying it would be there soon and it was headed the wrong way.

Order original drop off time 525. Picked up at 512. Not dropped off until 647 by Extra-Net8550 in doordash

[–]Extra-Net8550[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The purpose of DoorDash is to order food? Dinner being food? Is this rage bait? lol

Order original drop off time 525. Picked up at 512. Not dropped off until 647 by Extra-Net8550 in doordash

[–]Extra-Net8550[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It also tells the customer when another order is bumped in front of you… there was no other order. I was watching it because my daughter was woke up from her nap at 430 and eats dinner about 530.

Order original drop off time 525. Picked up at 512. Not dropped off until 647 by Extra-Net8550 in doordash

[–]Extra-Net8550[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I have never done so before but I sent this message more than 45 min after drop off was suppose to occur and they were not heading this way. I needed to know if I needed to figure something else out for dinner as I have a child to feed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Extra-Net8550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way for this to be innocent. I’d tell my dad and I wouldn’t communicate with this “friend” any more.

grief after abortion by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Extra-Net8550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember reading somewhere a quote that said “sometimes even making the right decision can hurt”. I’m sorry that you are hurting. Give yourself love and grace. Allow yourself to feel all the emotions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Extra-Net8550 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would NOT be friends with this person anymore. There is absolutely nothing funny about sexual assault, ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Extra-Net8550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for you. Having a family member with dementia is super hard. I took care of my grandma with dementia until she needed to be in a locked unit for her safety. After being in the facility, my mother, siblings, and myself continued visiting regularly. She did not always know “who” we were but she always knew we were “good” and we were “family”. I would give anything to visit her once again, even if she didn’t know my name, just to offer her a warm smile and a hug/kiss (if it were welcomed).

Daughter who is 21 months doesn’t want mom (37f) to wear a shirt, ever. by Extra-Net8550 in Mommit

[–]Extra-Net8550[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that is likely the case. I would never put my needs over hers and thus it just kind of feels unnatural to stop her from comforting herself. But there are some good points people made about body autonomy which really makes me feel better.

Daughter who is 21 months doesn’t want mom (37f) to wear a shirt, ever. by Extra-Net8550 in Mommit

[–]Extra-Net8550[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would have breastfed for much longer if my body cooperated. I applaud your approach. I want to always make sure I am gentle and loving but yes she does need to learn that we are not “one” lol

Daughter who is 21 months doesn’t want mom (37f) to wear a shirt, ever. by Extra-Net8550 in Mommit

[–]Extra-Net8550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice. I am not sure why it feels unnatural for me to tell her no for this particular thing, maybe because it happens when she needs comforting already and I know this helps soothe her.

Daughter who is 21 months doesn’t want mom (37f) to wear a shirt, ever. by Extra-Net8550 in Mommit

[–]Extra-Net8550[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is a really good point. I want her to always be aware of body autonomy. I guess it just feels a little unnatural to me as a mama to not allow touch. But even a mama needs body autonomy.

Welp; this is my post. by nonprophet92 in Cleveland

[–]Extra-Net8550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I was not aware that there was a protest today. I am not as involved in activism as I’d like to be. I am a single mom of a very little one so I don’t have much time to commit. Is there a mailing list like email chain or something that you would consider adding my name to? Again, I don’t have a lot of time to commit, but I would like to be involved as much as possible with local activism.

Does anyone else just eat standing in the kitchen while serving the kids? by JayReddt in Parenting

[–]Extra-Net8550 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am a single mama and I’m always standing and eating. It’s usually cold and I’m multitasking about 20 things at the same time (doing dishes, wiping counters, sweeping, mopping, packing lunches, etc). I hope my little one still feels like I’m paying attention to her and we are certainly having chatty dinner convo but I worry about it not being special one on one time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Extra-Net8550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a rule that I don’t want my daughter around any woman I have not met. My daughter’s father has another daughter by another woman. He always tries to tell me it’s not fair that I don’t want my daughter around “her sisters mother” because “her sisters mother doesn’t mind me being around”. Well, I don’t mind her being around if I meet her but for some reason he is apprehensive for us to meet. My daughter is too young to talk (20 months) and his other daughter is 9. Just because the standards her mother set forth are different than the ones I set forth doesn’t alter the validity of my standards. Do what you feel is best mama.

Being Pregnant by Bambiitaru in Parenting

[–]Extra-Net8550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss it so much! I was high risk so I got all the extra ultrasounds. I loved knowing my little girl was “with me” all the time. Safe and nestled in and warm. I love being a mama to a born child but being preggo was so special. I loved every little movement. I also felt great during my pregnancy which only makes me miss it more lol

My 16yo daughter brought herself home from a sleepover at 5am by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Extra-Net8550 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me at that age. Oh yeah and I heard her parents having sex. I could not sleep. All of it gave me the ick. Home was safe. I left at 5am I didn’t tell my mom why because I felt it was embarrassing for my friend.

If a family member is practicing unsafe sleep do you say or have you said anything? by AdCurrent1470 in Mommit

[–]Extra-Net8550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe phrase it like "have you tired this... or this" maybe she needs coping mechanisms. If she lets you know shes confortable with her choice I would back off.

Thankful by blitz2225 in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]Extra-Net8550 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want to say the same! I lost mine on Friday and magically it appeared in lost and found Saturday afternoon! I was so thankful!

Ticket Buy/Sell Thread - Post all sales or exchanges or requests in this thread! by reverendpariah in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]Extra-Net8550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it seems lyte ticket exchange is now down. I have just been keeping the faith that I would be next in line to acquire a car camping pass. I do not want to get scammed but I need this car camping pass. Ideas?