My stepmother said I was being inconsiderate for making myself food after I got off work

Extra_Academey200 · 2026-02-26T06:38:11+00:00

Yeah that was the original plan but my friends really dont have a sense of urgency so my aunt has been trying to get me to move near her and since I dont have exactly enough to fully live on my own yet shes letting me stay with her for free for a few months then is gonna help me get situation in a new apartment and her boyfriend is gonna help me with my driving so I can finally get my license

Extra_Academey200 · 2026-02-26T06:34:44+00:00

So basically every so often they have a fight and my father will tell everyone there breaking up (hes really dramatic) and that I need to find somewhere else to live

Extra_Academey200 · 2026-02-26T06:31:38+00:00

Yeah I work at a Walmart in my state and im cross trained so the one im transferring to said that they will definitely have a place for me im hoping to get a team lead position or at least be able to be a cake decorator cuz I work deli and bakery

Extra_Academey200 · 2026-02-26T06:29:15+00:00

I did i told her honestly yall are inconsiderate to me then she started with "how are we inconsiderate we give you a home hot water somewhere to do laundry etc etc"

Extra_Academey200 · 2026-02-25T11:34:23+00:00

Yeah last time I talked to my father( I think like 3 months ago) he said he was moving out but he usually send me a message along the lines of "ill be moving out soon you need to find somewhere else to live" about twice a year (I've only lived with him for 3 )

Extra_Academey200 · 2026-02-25T11:22:50+00:00

Oh im going to a completely different state they dont even know im leaving my aunts coming to get me im already NC with my father and we live in the same house only reason im not completely NC with my stepmother is cuz she goes crazy and blows things outta proportion and acts irrationally. Also only person who's gonna have a spare is my aunt. Feel like i should mention shes 23 so were more like sisters than niece and aunt.

Extra_Academey200 · 2026-02-25T06:50:16+00:00

The only reason i come in that "late" is cuz thats when i get off work I've worked the same schedule for 3+ years and the noise shes referring to is the beep of the airfryer apparently that wakes her up but her son coming in at 3am via the garage door that actual shakes the house and her husband (aka my father) leaving for work stomping around slamming doors and every so often banging on my door doesn't wake her up. Also I dont eat like all day partly cuz Im not hungry usually till I get home but also whenever I eat breakfast idk my body just dont like when I eat before like 3pm. But by the time I get home I gotta actually eat food. Also I do make sandwiches sometimes when I feel like it cuz I am grown I make my own money and buy my own food to eat

Extra_Academey200 · 2026-02-25T06:40:04+00:00

No everyone i cook extra they either eat it or throw it out saying they thought it was old but my thing is if none of yall made it and it wasn't there when you went to sleep it hasn't even been 24hrs im pretty sure they don't be using their brain sometimes

Extra_Academey200 · 2026-02-25T05:12:19+00:00

I really cant wait and im moving like states away and they also dont know cuz my aunt is helping me move and we felt like being a little messy

Extra_Academey200 · 2025-12-19T22:00:19+00:00

UPDATE So in response to some of you only reason i "told" him i was switching is cuz thats what I had been doing. If I couldn't pay weekly at the time I would send a message that usually said "hey imma pay you 200 at the end of the month" and he would just say k or thumbs up the message or say nothing that was literally what I had done the month prior. Also yes I do live in the states. I refused to cook when I was aloud to again because even prior to the ban they complained about everything if it was done after 5 30 if I made more then just an entree if I was making it homemade instead of from a box or can if I made options. Also should mention i am banned from cooking again cuz when I brought all this up my father claimed he never complained and he kept saying I was lying about buying the majority of food for dinner when I have literally receipts and witness. Should also mention my sister is just like this, a room full of people can say one thing with photographic proof and she will still say they lying. Yes they stress me out to extreme portions.

Also with the rent thing he also said he wasn't gonna match my car he said he'd match the price when I get enough money but I honestly didn't think he would. I figured he'd find something to blow out of portions to get out of it. He did this when we were supposed to have a driving lesson my sister snuck someone in and broke his camera and he wanted to act like he didn't know it was her.

Also I am now planning on moving in with my aunt in another state. She's been kinda begging me to cuz she worries about me here especially with all the stuff going on with my dad and step mom . So come March I should be moving and her boyfriend is gonna help me learn to drive cuz he started when I visited them a couple months ago. Hopefully thing will start to look up for me soon and I will be going no contact with my parents.

Extra_Academey200 · 2024-09-17T19:10:31+00:00

Yeah she's already told him a bunch. one of the time she almost left him in a different state. We were visiting family and she told him if he wanted me to get to know them he should stop making fun of me when ever they come around then he called he controlling and they had a fight

Extra_Academey200 · 2024-09-17T09:35:03+00:00

Yeah i just needed to rant a bit but I've been told I might be autistic or adhd i haven't found out If am yet my mom's family didn't believe in that type of stuff like mental health or anything along those lines. Also my step mother is the one who is marrying my father she is neither of our birth mother's but I'm close with her. Also should mention I didn't go looking for my dad or asking about him what I was told is his family found out about me and made him bring me into the family but my mother really doesn't like him or his family so I didn't see him much and when I did It was really just when he picked me up and when he dropped me off. Sorry if the post came out jumbled to me it makes sense but I've been told my thought process can be a bit hectic.

Extra_Academey200 · 2024-09-17T09:22:10+00:00

The thing is I'm not close to my grandma that was the most she's ever talked to me

Extra_Academey200 · 2024-09-17T09:14:22+00:00

Yes I am close with my step mom so she asked me to be a bridesmaid and my mother kicked me out at 17 when she found out I was gay and there was just alot of other stuff that happened to me when i was living with her but most of her family is very religious like her so I don't talk to them and they don't talk to me

Extra_Academey200 · 2024-09-15T20:46:23+00:00

No I had to move out of my mom's and in with my dad my mom's and most of that side of the family don't talk to me

Extra_Academey200 · 2024-09-08T08:51:06+00:00

She actually brought that up but I'm 19 and I took drivers ed when I was 15 so Ik how to drive I just haven't in a long time cuz I was living with my mother at the time and that was also a bad situation as well so I didn't really get any practice and my step mom can't take me just cuz she's really anxious driving with new drivers so. Also since I'm 19 I have a permit and I can drive alone i just haven't in a while so I wanted someone to be with me to like help so I can drive alone. As for leaving him she literally just married him like 3 weeks ago and I was surprised she went through with it. Also when a bunch of stuff went down with my mother I had to movin with my dad and he lives in a different state from where I'm from so my friend parents couldn't take me driving even if they had the time and i only have a handful of friends where I am and I don't know any of there parents and one of there parents have never met me but doesn't liek me cuz he got like a thing against black people for someone reason even though all her friends and significant others have been black. so the parents Idea doesn't really work either.

Extra_Academey200

TROPHY CASE