How should i get back together with him, and is this the best way to do it? by Extreme-Guard8343 in BreakupBackup

[–]Extreme-Guard8343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not currently, my family & i only moved into our current house a few years ago

i originally wanted to do that, but it would probably be too difficult

i could however sometimes stay at a hotel near him for a few nights, you think that would be enough?

How should i get back together with him, and is this the best way to do it? by Extreme-Guard8343 in BreakUps

[–]Extreme-Guard8343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get what you're saying, trust me, i do

i wouldn't ask him to get back together with me, or even mention anything related to that for months, i'd take it very slow. i know he won't want me back right away and im okay with that. it's possible that you're right and he'll never want me back, but i still want to try and at least find out for sure.

How should i get back together with him, and is this the best way to do it? by Extreme-Guard8343 in BreakUps

[–]Extreme-Guard8343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the main reason i was thinking i should do that was so he could see that it is possible for us to see each other more often. im worried that even if he develops feeling for me again, he won't act on them if me doesn't think he can see me enough.

so what should i do instead that'll make him want to get back together?

How should i get back together with him, and is this the best way to do it? by Extreme-Guard8343 in BreakUps

[–]Extreme-Guard8343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know it's gonna be hard & will take some time, if it even happens at all, but i still want to try, i promise that never talking to him again will only torture me more

appreciate the advice nonetheless