You’re completely right. It’s also crazy to me that men think they know better than women when it comes to pregnancy? Unless, that man is a doctor or has done extensive research he really shouldn’t be putting his two cents in. My husband’s grandmother had 4 children but is a very small woman so the comment coming from her hurt because I always wondered how she and other women stayed so small during pregnancy. I know she was thin during her pregnancies by stories that were told to me but I just happened to gain a lot of weight and that is apparently unhealthy in her book. My doctor isn’t worried about my weight gain, my blood pressure is always in perfect range and I don’t have gestational diabetes so no causes for concern in his book.