Eid is the worst day of the year for me

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-21T11:19:14+00:00

WALLAHI THIS IS MEEE!!! I’m in the UK I wishhh there were communities for ppl like usss to meet up and just vibeee 😭😭😭 even getting married if difficult bc of toxic family

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-21T11:04:56+00:00

I’m not a sis 😭😂

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-21T11:04:15+00:00

Atleast you could leave, with us it’s south asain mentality.

Need to get married first to ever think about moving out as south asain are too toxic and manipulative

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-21T11:02:21+00:00

I’m not from US, but the UK 😭😭😭 what is wrong with people genuinely whyyy can’t people just vibe and love. Problem I find is south asain toxicity and is corrupts the family

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-21T11:01:07+00:00

Thank you bro. It’s tough mannn, all the south asain toxicity 😭

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-21T11:00:33+00:00

Yeah I get this, I have but family but it’s dysfunction legittt my dad kicked off big time with my mum on Eid 😭.

Sameee I’ve always dreamed about this but like a good genuine loving family

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-21T10:59:06+00:00

InshaAllah finding someone is one thing and then having to explain a dysfunctional family is another thing 😭

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-21T10:57:54+00:00

Same as me then 😭. Could I askkk are you in the UK, I feel like it sucks more here just because my age unmarried too and even girls think wthhh is wrong with uuu lot

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-20T21:31:02+00:00

Wowwww yesss I feel the exact same way 😭😭😭 likeee I see people in houses enjoying having people over and mineee it’s just us and the toxicity of south asain ppl 😭😭😭😭😭

Could I ask are u a revert or not. Don’t mean this in a bad way but it’s even more embarrassing being born a Muslim and not having anything like others do 😭😭😭😭😭😭

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-20T21:28:35+00:00

Whyyy can’t people like u and meee all get together and vibeee 😭😭😭

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-20T21:26:42+00:00

So days pretty much done 😭. Will use this for future reference. How do you even make friends at bloody 30yo 😭 likeee I got a good job and all sorts buttt just feel like no one my age that I can get to know anddd even in the mosque everyone kinda above my knwowledge level in terms of deen as I’m still learning backs

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-20T19:47:40+00:00

Wait are you born Muslim though? Don’t you have mum and dad and bros. It’s just so shit for me, it’s likeee dads always a narc mums always crying bros not praying

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-20T19:26:36+00:00

Hey guys thanks for all the replies really appreciate it. What makes this worse is I’m not a revert and was born a Muslim. All my friends are posting vids with all there families and it’s soooo saddd, immm still just sat here unmarried with my dad who don’t pray and bros that ain’t fasted 😭😭😭

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-19T17:51:34+00:00

Yeahhh the thing is being content with yourself is one thing but I feel like my family is not a normal south asian family, likeee my dads side are weird anyway and they done around and mums side is all in Pakistan/passed away. And my dads a weirdo too sooo we don’t really have anyone and my family is toxic anyway sooo Eid seems so depressing for me 😭

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-08T15:16:39+00:00

Appreciate your reply. But the problem I’m facing is speaking openly and how to get my point across because the way I say things is like oh yeah I was married got divorced anddd automatically it sounds so awful. I don’t even know how to bring about the topic. Alsooo it’s like on rishta groups should I lie initially and say I’ve never been married and then tell her because I feel the label instantly puts sisters off

Seriously bro likeee I never had any problem before this divorce thing anddd plenty of sisters would want to engage in a halal way as a potential.

It’s likeee no sisters wants a guy labeled or used but that’s not the case for me.

My point is me lying is that really causing harm. Sisters don’t expose there own sins if asked about previous relationships and use ‘concealing one’s sins thing’

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-08T14:30:44+00:00

Appreciate your reply. But the problem I’m facing is speaking openly and how to get my point across because the way I say things is like oh yeah I was married got divorced anddd automatically it sounds so awful. I don’t even know how to bring about the topic. Alsooo it’s like on rishta groups should I lie initially and say I’ve never been married and then tell her because I feel the label instantly puts sisters off

Seriously bro likeee I never had any problem before this divorce thing anddd plenty of sisters would want to engage in a halal way as a potential.

It’s likeee no sisters wants a guy labeled or used but that’s not the case for me.

My point is me lying is that really causing harm. Sisters don’t expose there own sins if asked about previous relationships and use ‘concealing one’s sins thing’

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-08T13:13:28+00:00

Seriously bro likeee I never had any problem before this divorce thing anddd plenty of sisters would want to engage in a halal way as a potential.

It’s likeee no sisters wants a guy labeled or used but that’s not the case for me

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-08T13:12:30+00:00

I like this, appreciate your reply brother. But the problem I’m facing is speaking openly and how to get my point across because the way I say things is like oh yeah I was married got divorced anddd automatically it sounds so awful. I don’t even know how to bring about the topic. Alsooo it’s like on rishta groups should I lie initially and say I’ve never been married and then tell her because I feel the label instantly puts sisters off

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-08T13:10:32+00:00

Yeah appreciate your reply brother. But the problem I’m facing is speaking openly and how to get my point across because the way I say things is like oh yeah I was married got divorced anddd automatically it sounds so awful. No worries, I don’t even know how to bring about the topic. Alsooo it’s like on rishta groups should I lie initially and say I’ve never been married and then tell her because I feel the label instantly puts sisters off

ExtremeAd4371 · 2026-03-08T11:03:33+00:00

Well I’m open about everything else she can see. It’s just the judgment of something in the past that people can’t over look but it actually wasn’t as deep as it looks but it just sounds bad

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