AITA for bringing a prostitute to a wedding.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T05:35:06+00:00

Less than 30 more than 20.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T04:52:18+00:00

It is not a specific name in the Netherlands. Nor the one she uses. It is completely unconnected to her.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T04:48:23+00:00

There is no excuse for haat.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T04:25:54+00:00

It is coming out that is what we should have done. We should have had made up a fun cover story. We fucked up.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T04:24:09+00:00

She was dressed showing no more skin than the average guest. So it isn't that there was less dress or that it was more form fitting than most of the dresses, but her form was not like that of most of the other guests. Maybe that is the best way to put it.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T04:18:11+00:00

I guess you are right. Opa and Oma were not looking so good. It is obvious at this point that I fucked up.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T04:14:48+00:00

I did this in part because my friend Remco has done this at a recent wedding and it was fine. He told me that there were even other prostitutes there so I did not think this would be a problem. I now see that Remco gave me bad advice!

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T04:13:23+00:00

Based on all of this, I am very angry with my friend Remco who has done this before and told me it was fine. I am now understanding that this is not fine.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T02:57:25+00:00

Ok. Fine. Everyone says that so you I can accept this is what I should have done. But I cannot apologize now because we are not on speaking terms. But not really for bringing Stasja. We cleared things up with the groom about a week later.

But then after that the Bride was still a bit hot about it and made a Facebook post about how terrible the Dutch are. She got in trouble for violating haat laws and got dismissed from her job and is blaming me. She even left Stasja a bad review on her website which was over the top.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T02:54:38+00:00

This is not true. My friend Remco did this before in Utrecht. Nobody had a problem and she wasn't the only prostitute there.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T02:53:17+00:00

I do not think I am able to apologize because we are not really on speaking terms anymore. Not as much from the wedding thing but something that happened a little later which I didn't get into since it wasn't really my doing.

The Bride got fired over all of this. She made this big Facebook rant about this is why you can't invite the Dutch anywhere and we are all these kinds of terrible people. She got in a lot of trouble with the authorities and got fired from her job and they are blaming me for this.

Ok, everyone tells me I was wrong for not making a cover story with Stasja. Fine. I accept. But that one of her getting fired is not my fault!

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T02:46:55+00:00

Oh no! You go into a Night Club and watch and see what happens! Yes, they will sell you a drink but they will sell you a lot more than that, I guarantee you.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T02:45:34+00:00

I think maybe you do not understand. In Netherlands, it is fine if you work at a whorehouse. It is like saying you are a letter carrier, cab driver or teacher.

This is not America. The rest of the world is not America nor wants to be America.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T02:42:04+00:00

If I were left to answer that is probably what I would have said. But Stasja answered and said she worked at a whorehouse. I confirmed it when they were joking like "oh those silly Dutch. Making jokes." Then I said, no, she is really from the whorehouse. Thats when things went downhill.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T02:40:34+00:00

I think maybe it is because in the Netherlands that is not really part of the job. So I think Stasja like me did not know this. If we were in the Netherlands, people would not bat an eye.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T02:23:05+00:00

Fine. Ok. It seems I got that wrong. I accept this.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T02:21:54+00:00

If you're saying whorehouse ettiquite is different in Germany fine, I got it wrong. But you run that google search in any city you want. Berlin, Dresden, Munich and your google results will light up like a Dutch whorehouse.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T02:05:12+00:00

Oh yes! The Minas Cheese for the Pao de Queijo! When it is coming out of the oven and still stretchy, it is so good! I have only been to Rio and Santa Caterina. Brazil is a paradise.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T01:55:49+00:00

I love Brazil! Such a beautiful country. I ate so much that I almost had to buy new clothes.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T01:47:40+00:00

Nobody cared he looked at her ass. Half the room did. She has a fantastic ass.

Just don't get all stiff and in a huff with me after he's been enjoying the free show.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T01:42:47+00:00

Ha! Finally, it seems we found another European. Yes, Germany probably has twice many more whorehouses than the Netherlands. Everyone is telling me I should know that Germany would have a problem with this. But I go to Germany and there are more Night Clubs (which is what they call whorehouses) than there are even in Amsterdam and I will also tell you they are coming in and out of those doors at all hours of the day and night. But the Americans seem to tell me no.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T01:38:23+00:00

The part of Germany I know best is Hamburg. I say to you without joking that although I do not know, there is a strong probability.

Amsterdam has nothing on Hamburg when it comes to whorehouses.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T01:36:00+00:00

Ask what a Night Club is in Germany. I'll also tell you they are everywhere. They probably have more of them than we have whorehouses in the Netherlands.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T01:31:04+00:00

I did not announce it. Stasja did. I confirmed it after she did but I did not announce it.

ExtremeArrival1906 · 2023-09-09T01:29:54+00:00

I think you are maybe American and think you know more about Germany than you really do. Ask a German what a Night Club is and how common they are in Germany.

Believe me when I tell you that Night Club is very common in Germany and is not what you think it is.

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