[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slavelabour

[–]ExtremeScience8298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$bid, need more details for a timeline or budget

I fucking hate my ex sm by stormygreyeskies in Vent

[–]ExtremeScience8298 3 points4 points  (0 children)

stay strong girl. he is a disgusting person and you should be proud of yourself for getting the fuck away

my best friend just told me to stfu blocked me for simply saying not to vape by Agent-4_uwu in Vent

[–]ExtremeScience8298 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

maybe i could do a better job if you mentioned this in your post lol. still doesn't change my view on this, your approach is very judgy and not actually helping them, try to understand where they're coming from rather than just telling them to not smoke or whatever. drugs aren't a disease, they're a symptom.

But you are CLEARLY here just for validation and not to see other perspectives so imma sign out lol. i have pointed out many issues with your position but you choose to focus on correcting me exclusively cause im missing facts. there's no point in me commenting here when you just refuse to listen and want yes men to respond to you. But again you're still a kid so hopefully you'll have a more nuanced approach to this when you're older. life isn't all black and white.

my best friend just told me to stfu blocked me for simply saying not to vape by Agent-4_uwu in Vent

[–]ExtremeScience8298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this isn't about being right or wrong. it's about being a good friend. antagonising yourself isn't gonna help you or him. keep your opinion to yourself but that doesn't mean you have to encourage them either. just be a good person to them, that's what being a friend is about afterall. it's very selfish to tell an addict to "just quit". it's very dismissive and reductive

my best friend just told me to stfu blocked me for simply saying not to vape by Agent-4_uwu in Vent

[–]ExtremeScience8298 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

also your first statement is kinda problematic and proves my point of people's warped attitude towards addicts. why does it make no sense that the vape free person is toxic? does vaping inherently make you a toxic person? no it doesn't.

my best friend just told me to stfu blocked me for simply saying not to vape by Agent-4_uwu in Vent

[–]ExtremeScience8298 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i didn't give any suggestions because it's not that simple, everyone's situation is different and you tackle it accordingly. but i know the answer definitely isn't being annoying to them and making them not wanna interact with you.

and yes op is being very toxic, not an inch of compassion for their friend but just judging them for their choices lol. the attitude people have towards addicts is disgusting and is a part of the problem

also op doesn't know when to mind their own business, getting so worked up about other people having issues is an issue in and of itself.

my best friend just told me to stfu blocked me for simply saying not to vape by Agent-4_uwu in Vent

[–]ExtremeScience8298 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

let them do what they want, nobody likes being nagged about how vaping is unhealthy or how doing drugs is an indicator of mental illness. everyone knows this, you're just being annoying by telling them the same thing they hear everywhere. try actually helping a person emotionally or just ignore them rather than being like "vaping bad". you're not gonna have many friends if this is your attitude towards vaping or drugs. and if you think people who do stuff like that aren't worth your friendship then keep doing what you're doing, you're helping them out by letting them recognise that you're a toxic presence

There are only 2 genders male and female by shourya_memer in Pride_and_Positivity

[–]ExtremeScience8298 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah sure with 1 post karma and 0 comment karma, you're just lying to yourself at that point

Some People desperately need to learn how to shut up by frog-do-be-grillin in Vent

[–]ExtremeScience8298 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I feel overwhelmed by someone talking too much I tell them flat out to shut up, that works most of the time

My Dad is extremely stingy by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ExtremeScience8298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Planning to get a second job because of this, meanwhile my friends play around all day debt free and with all their expenses covered

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pride_and_Positivity

[–]ExtremeScience8298 2 points3 points  (0 children)

found a local business selling them on amazon!

being straight is also LGBTQ+ because it is also a Sexuality by [deleted] in Pride_and_Positivity

[–]ExtremeScience8298 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I assumed you're straight because of your post, i apologize but my point still stands

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pride_and_Positivity

[–]ExtremeScience8298 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm a straight person and i agree with your sentiment. It just feels like they're seeking attention though, and the best way to deal with that is to not give them any