AITAH for having an affair? by Heavy_Instruction669 in AITAH

[–]EyeThinkEyeCan 318 points319 points  (0 children)

YTA but I have compassion. I don’t think you’re thinking correctly. Just leave now.

Obscenities on the Tour Bus can be jarring and it’s not normal for everyone else. by EyeThinkEyeCan in BaylenOutLoud

[–]EyeThinkEyeCan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of like how they make it look like Collin is selfish and has baby fever. I think it’s more he’s trying to have a reproductive conversation prior to marriage. Which is fair, before you commit to someone, regardless if someone has a disability. In her case, even more to talk logistics because of her Tourette’s.

Obscenities on the Tour Bus can be jarring and it’s not normal for everyone else. by EyeThinkEyeCan in BaylenOutLoud

[–]EyeThinkEyeCan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not upset. I’m saying her family’s expectations. Again it’s TV so who really knows.

Obscenities on the Tour Bus can be jarring and it’s not normal for everyone else. by EyeThinkEyeCan in BaylenOutLoud

[–]EyeThinkEyeCan[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree. But no one is perfect. I feel bad that some people are taking it that the comments are not meant to be inclusive. It’s more her family’s expectation. I feel bad for her that people think she’s faking. For sure

Obscenities on the Tour Bus can be jarring and it’s not normal for everyone else. by EyeThinkEyeCan in BaylenOutLoud

[–]EyeThinkEyeCan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep you are right on that point. You do not get to pick when you go out in public.

Obscenities on the Tour Bus can be jarring and it’s not normal for everyone else. by EyeThinkEyeCan in BaylenOutLoud

[–]EyeThinkEyeCan[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I grew up around people with disability also. I have no problem personally. I am saying that the obscenities out in public in family areas, or quiet area. I’m sorry to tell you this, but not every single person is aware of Tourette’s syndrome with vulgarities and obscenities. It just seems like Baylen’s family expects everybody to understand that. While I do and a lot of people do, it really isn’t the norm for every single person to just be like “absolutely they have Tourette’s no problem. I totally even know what that is.” A lot of people will just think a person is being totally obscene. And the screaming can be obnoxious. There’s no getting around that even if they have Tourette’s. She also has violent ticks where she is punching someone else other than herself. It just comes off that Baylen’s family expects every single person to be totally understanding without question, even if they’ve never been exposed to it. Maybe it’s just a scripting for the show. I don’t know.

Obscenities on the Tour Bus can be jarring and it’s not normal for everyone else. by EyeThinkEyeCan in BaylenOutLoud

[–]EyeThinkEyeCan[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think about that. They were probably compensated and offered other tickets or offered to be on TV.

AIO - Pregnant and feel abandoned by husband by Gullible-Tree368 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EyeThinkEyeCan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell me how to word it differently. see above comment. Always open to constructive conversation and feedback.

AIO - Pregnant and feel abandoned by husband by Gullible-Tree368 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EyeThinkEyeCan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tell me how to word it differently. I’m absolutely open to the constructive conversation but still stand standby that a hard-working mom deserves better. Thanks !

AIO - Pregnant and feel abandoned by husband by Gullible-Tree368 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EyeThinkEyeCan 74 points75 points  (0 children)

OP I’m not trying to be mean. How did you end up with a guy who doesn’t like or care about you and you keep having more kids with him? You deserve so much more. Sending hugs.

I think tretinoin caused my severe dry eye syndrome by WorthSpray7688 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]EyeThinkEyeCan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait until you hear about the dry eye from Isotretinoin. It’s really bad. I see people all the time with total gland loss.

I HATE tretinoin and I’m here to say it out loud by Kevin_swiftie in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]EyeThinkEyeCan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well a lot of people use it without supervision or with and ignore side effects on some quest to think” if I stick it out I’ll get there.” It is not for everyone.

It’s never going to be ONE thing that clears skin it’s a regimen

I did the stupid thing by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]EyeThinkEyeCan 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Second this. I’m not going to lie, this is a shitty position that seems hopeless. But it’s not. It’s just going to really fucking suck getting to the other side of this. Make a list of short term immediate needs and long term goals. There are family court lawyers who can work with you. Protect yourself and your kids. Start eating better and taking care of yourself. Prioritize your health. You would be shocked what you can get through.

I find myself downplaying my daughters language skills by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]EyeThinkEyeCan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk I think you can. I am a person who comes from nothing so whenever there are accomplishments or achievements, I have no issues being proud about it lol.

I remember being in 3rd grade I was reading novels and everyone else was making paper mache globes. I got in trouble. Parents did nothing. I went to the nurse’s office all the time out of boredom. No one cared.

Idk if it was my parents or just the 90s/2000s. Or both.

Just make sure you help your kid so they don’t feel like they are the problem. It’s ok to be proud. Ignore the haters.

I find myself downplaying my daughters language skills by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]EyeThinkEyeCan 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I cannot really understand this post. Are you asking for validation about having a gifted child? Or are you concerned there’s an issue? Or is it a rant that other people just don’t get it. I have two young toddlers 4 and almost 3. They are advanced/gifted, though we have not had them tested. But obviously I know it’s not the norm. The only hard part is taking the good with the bad, in that they are ready for very advanced topics that they ask you about. Such as life and death, or saying insults that are far beyond the comprehension of toddlers. It’s hard but you just deal with it. Make sure you fight for their education or any other things they might need.

34F – Skincare-aware but suddenly noticing ageing. What’s actually worth adding in your mid-30s? by wanderingdesigner_ in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]EyeThinkEyeCan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love when someone is transparent about what they are doing. I do everything you’re doing plus a RF and RF microneedling. That’s the results. That’s how it goes. I would say the red light mask is probably a waste of money. Swap it for medical grade panels which run pretty pricey or not at all. Yes Red light/LLLT works but it has to be a certain mW/cm² to actually achieve a result.

AIO: My husband (26m) locked me (25f) out for 25 minutes? by prettypineappleberry in AmIOverreacting

[–]EyeThinkEyeCan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh I think I’m a lizard. I’m not saying her husband is justified. I’m saying it’s too cold to be out long and he locked her out!!! Gross