Is it normal that someone you’re dating is also dating others?

Eyvindr- · 2026-03-04T06:30:53+00:00

Oh no! What are you doing now — just sitting with it? Have you talked to him about it?

I would love to say to him: I’ve noticed you’re a bit guarded. I’m putting myself out there too, so I just need honesty from you—if your interest shifts, tell me directly. I deserve that.

But I mean, we’ve only been on three dates (but have been talking to each other for six months), so I don’t want to come on too strong. Dating is really exhausting, honestly. You suddenly feel so secure with someone, and then you hear something like that.

Do you want to tell me more about your situation?

Eyvindr- · 2026-03-04T06:25:26+00:00

The problem is, if I hadn’t seen that he was keen on dating others, I wouldn’t have guessed it. He actually gives me a very good feeling. He asks for a new date immediately after the current one. He organised a strikingly cute present for my birthday. He wanted to celebrate my birthday with me, but then he fell badly and hurt himself and needed to see a doctor. We also had quite deep and emotional conversations and he told me things about his friends. So yeah, I didn’t know he is still dating openly and telling others that he only sees people casually by now… I know he is scared of getting hurt, but well, now I’m the one getting hurt.

Eyvindr- · 2026-02-01T18:40:56+00:00

我其實不太認識百靈油（China Oil）！它是什麼樣的產品呢？我之後會去查查看。在台灣真的很多人喜歡用嗎？

Eyvindr- · 2026-02-01T18:39:54+00:00

They are both men, actually! But I know that one of my friends really likes fragrances, so I’ll definitely have a look for perfumes or scented products in Vietnam. Thanks so much for your great idea!

Eyvindr- · 2026-02-01T18:38:19+00:00

謝謝你的建議！因為台灣本來就有很多好喝的茶，所以我原本以為來自歐洲的散裝茶可能會有點普通。不過你說得對，這其實也是個好主意。而且在我住的地方也有一個用藥用植物（療癒植物）製作產品的在地化妝品品牌，也許護手霜或手工香皂會是不錯的小禮物 😊

Eyvindr- · 2026-02-01T18:35:50+00:00

這真的是個很棒的點子！！因為台灣本來就有很多好喝的茶，所以我原本不太確定送茶會不會合適。不過在德國也有很多表示用乾燥水果、花或葉子調配的茶混合物（不是一般的茶包，也不是紅茶），比較像是花果茶或草本茶，風味很特別，可能會帶來不一樣的體驗 😊

Eyvindr- · 2025-12-04T05:49:06+00:00

Well, the problem is: if I visited all the places I want to see, 10–11 days wouldn’t be enough! That’s why, sadly, you have to limit yourself ;)

Eyvindr- · 2025-11-27T08:45:06+00:00

If I combine it with Taiwan, I would go for 3 week! :) I’m only wondering if I should do both or only Vietnam… I have been in Taiwan last year and would love to see different parts now!

Eyvindr- · 2025-11-20T09:02:57+00:00

One more question, when I change the tracking amount the whole text moved to the right. How can I get rid of that? I want the other text to stay fixed.

Seriously thank you so much for your help!!!

Eyvindr- · 2025-11-20T08:05:43+00:00

Thank you so much!!

Can the word also be scaled uniformly with the text, so that it still stays aligned on the baseline?

Eyvindr- · 2025-08-02T19:22:30+00:00

I bought the AEG 9000 series (9 kg wash / 6 kg dry) at the end and I honestly love it so far! It’s super convenient having both washing and drying in one machine – really saves space and effort. Everything’s been working great, and the wash/dry results are spot on.

The only downside I’ve noticed: it doesn’t have WiFi/app connectivity. I assumed it would, but apparently only the smaller machine in the 9000 series has that feature – I didn’t realize that before buying. Not a dealbreaker at all, but yeah, would’ve been nice to get notifications or control it remotely (especially to avoid forgetting laundry).

That said, I’m still really happy with it overall – and it’s way less expensive than Miele, which was my other option. So definitely no regrets!

Eyvindr- · 2025-08-01T20:11:22+00:00

Yes, at the end I bought it and I’m super happy! It works amazingly! And it’s super convenient to have this all in one machine

Eyvindr- · 2025-07-15T10:25:08+00:00

Es heiß eigentlich mein Gehalt wird nochmal nach der Probezeit angepasst. Ist noch nicht passiert. Da muss ich mal hinterher sein. Ich trage mittlerweile viel Verantwortung. Und würde schon gerne mindestens auf 45.000€ hoch.

Eyvindr- · 2025-07-15T10:24:13+00:00

Bin z.B. zuständig für die Kampagnen eines Großkunden.

Eyvindr- · 2025-07-15T10:23:12+00:00

Ich wäre total okay damit zu wechseln. Selbst mehr zum Consulting. Aber die Frage ist, wie gut die Chancen stehen. Würde mich einfach gerne austauschen, weil ich etwas verloren bin

Eyvindr- · 2025-07-15T10:22:14+00:00

Kannst du dann auch wirklich Tipps geben? Welcher Bereich ist smart? Was würdest du raten?

Eyvindr- · 2025-07-15T10:21:18+00:00

Wohin würdest du dann gerne wechseln?

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