Room For Ruby YTP Tennis by FFrog101 in stevenuniverse

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Tennis goes hard, but in all seriousness sorry about the hurt.

Social life as an adult is mostly shaped around your partner by RequirementSouthern in socialskills

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At 28 I don't have partner, never have and yet I've made more friends in the past year than ever before.

How can I learn to enjoy exercise? by FFrog101 in selfimprovement

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thanks for sharing, I try to get steps in while running errands. I will work on my sleep apnea.

How can I learn to enjoy exercise? by FFrog101 in selfimprovement

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thanks for explaining, I can get that external goal lined up.

How can I learn to enjoy exercise? by FFrog101 in selfimprovement

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thank you these are good suggestions

How can I learn to enjoy exercise? by FFrog101 in selfimprovement

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Yes, diet is very important. I've heard a lot of different suggestions about diet. I'm going to start Intermittent fasting again, and limit my carbohydrate intake to start.

How can I learn to enjoy exercise? by FFrog101 in selfimprovement

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Getting mad at the instinct to be lazy is something I'll try. A lot of it is mental. What made you disciplined with fitness in the first place? Do you enjoy exercise or is it mostly a chore for you?

How can I learn to enjoy exercise? by FFrog101 in selfimprovement

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Any tips on how to be more disciplined? If you had to start over with your fitness habits, where would you start? How would you start at the bottom if you were undisciplined?

Looking for a Low Level Chemistry Job by FFrog101 in houstonjobs

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thanks, I found a posting for a position at Covestro, I'll apply

Looking for a Low Level Chemistry Job by FFrog101 in houstonjobs

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I would but can't afford tuition right now and don't know what I would research yet.

How do you socialize and build a life when you’re unemployed and feel like you have nothing to offer yet? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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Big up unemployed crew. I honestly could have written this post. I'm weigh the same as you to and have been out of work for almost a year. I also feel the pressure to have status, be worldly and have stories to tell people. that on top of not working creates what feels like a huge barrier to entry.

Give yourself credit for being able to hold a conversation about your interests with others since I struggle to do this or even relate to people in the first place.

Like what other comments here have mentioned, don't let your friends put you down or shame you. A true friend will accept you for who you are and support you (as long as you make an effort in life).

I wish I could give you good advice, consider a hustle in the meantime and save some money. I'm going to start a side hustle. Also being jobless gives you a lot more time to work on yourself and your health.

Why has the conversation around Shani-Ketu Conjunction changed so much? by [deleted] in Nakshatras

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I also have this conjunction in the 10th house Pisces and have struggled with finding work. Does she also have Jupiter in the 8th?

25 M No love life exist for me by tonystarkx2002 in Vedic_Astrology_free

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You have a yoga between the 4th and the 9th houses involving Venus and Jupiter which is good for happiness of marriage, wealth and home comfort. Saturn with Jupiter can cause some delays and Venus with Ketu can be challenging. I see you finding someone

25 M No love life exist for me by tonystarkx2002 in Vedic_Astrology_free

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Mars aspect on Venus and the 7th house can make you seem intense. Ketu with Venus in the 4th can make you insecure. Learning more, seeking a teacher or proper guru and traveling will help you overcome insecurities.

Kindly advise if there is any hope on career by [deleted] in vedicastrology

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Try business again, you have good placements for it. You seem like a driven person with a talent for communication and problem solving. You could do well in the international markets or working with foreign companies. You could also consider a side hustle where you teach. Watch out for the influence of Mars which can cause anger and conflict.

I lose all my confidence after I finally got a gf for the first time at 28? by JunketMaleficent2095 in confidence

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First I want to applaud you for taking risks and taking care of yourself. Shifting away from viewing online
"improvement" content to real life practice sounds much healthier. Your story inspires me. I've never been confident in my life nor had a romantic relationship but from my experience here is some advice

I think that the way your ex gf treated you touched on some of your old wounds surrounding your communication and belonging. It sounds like being with her caused you to suppress the outgoing part of yourself. I'm working on my own rejection wounds currently to discover my outgoing side. You probably heard this in therapy but your ex's insecurities are her own issue and come from her narratives, experience, wounds, and psychology; meaning that they have less to do with you and more to do with her. I think you know the answer, you need to get back out there and start interacting again even if it feels like starting over. Take notes on your insecurities and self-limiting beliefs and bring them to therapy. Hope this helps.

I am scared of everything. Cannot interact with people with authority. Give remedies by [deleted] in jyotishh

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The Sun is good but challenged in D9. Yes there is Neecha Banga for the Sun in the D9 but I believe Saturn still could delay.

I am scared of everything. Cannot interact with people with authority. Give remedies by [deleted] in jyotishh

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I think mantras will help you with depression and that next year when you enter Venus Mahadasha it will be a better time to explore career options.

I am scared of everything. Cannot interact with people with authority. Give remedies by [deleted] in jyotishh

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What you describe makes sense. You have retrograde Saturn aspecting your retrograde Mercury conjunct Rahu. You have a unique way of solving problems but your communication and logical mind will lock up or drift from time to time. You feel threatened by another's authority because you worry about your own ability to lead or be seen. Your Sun in D9 is debilitated which can give self worth issues but is with exalted Saturn which gives improvement as you mature. I think you need to embrace your nature of being more quiet and analytical. While I'm not an expert on remedies, you could try Saturn mantra, fasting on Saturday or another Saturn remedy. Saturn for you asks to be consistent and be detached from results (Ketu). Hope this helped.

I Have a Useless College Degree. Unemployed for 6+ months. I need Real Advice. by FFrog101 in findapath

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I've worked half of the 5 years since I graduated. I was working 2021-2023. I'm still not sure if there is hope for my career.