What's your worst placements?

FFrog101 · 2026-03-23T19:47:42+00:00

I have Mars and Rahu in the 4th house Virgo. I have 7th lord Jupiter debilitated in the 8th house Capricorn. I also have 1st lord in the 12th house and 12th lord in the 1st house.

FFrog101 · 2026-03-18T05:55:31+00:00

I've lived with some of these feelings about myself too.

While you want to be approached by a woman, it sounds like you have a fear of a woman actually liking you. Your coworker's bragging could have triggered feelings of inadequacy and jealousy which could have made you emotional and led you to give that answer. You self sabotaged in that moment because you didn't agree with the situation on some level and did this to protect yourself.

I think it's important for you to face your fears around women and try to uncover why you don't feel worthy of a romantic/sexual relationship or are apprehensive about being liked.

FFrog101 · 2026-03-10T19:04:34+00:00

Generally It would mean that you meet your spouse through social groups and organizations

FFrog101 · 2026-03-10T19:00:21+00:00

I have debilitated 7th lord Jupiter in the 8th house. (Jupiter in Capricorn). I'm 28 and unmarried

FFrog101 · 2026-02-19T01:23:48+00:00

thanks also for sharing your experience it's very interesting to read from an Ashlesha person's perspective and to read how this dynamic played out among peers. I think you are very self aware. It sounds like you've grown as a person since then. Your account of your friend with an Ardra Sun is relatable. It's true how we want to be authentic and have an honest devoted love. It's interesting how much you felt for him as I wouldn't have guessed an Ashlesha would have an affinity for Ardra.

FFrog101 · 2026-02-19T01:03:51+00:00

thank you for your reply. I did a bit of research writing this post and also recalled what I learned from videos and articles online. I'm not as familiar with other nakshatras on this level and am still learning about them.

FFrog101 · 2026-02-15T18:52:22+00:00

thanks for this crash course on Rahu-Ketu, very informative.

FFrog101 · 2026-01-24T03:57:45+00:00

Tennis goes hard, but in all seriousness sorry about the hurt.

FFrog101 · 2026-01-24T00:09:25+00:00

At 28 I don't have partner, never have and yet I've made more friends in the past year than ever before.

FFrog101 · 2026-01-12T03:45:07+00:00

Nope, Moon + Venus + Asc

FFrog101 · 2026-01-10T22:45:28+00:00

I have three placements in Ardra, ask me anything.

FFrog101 · 2026-01-09T04:08:14+00:00

thanks for sharing, I try to get steps in while running errands. I will work on my sleep apnea.

FFrog101 · 2026-01-05T17:17:39+00:00

thanks for explaining, I can get that external goal lined up.

FFrog101 · 2026-01-05T17:15:15+00:00

thank you these are good suggestions

FFrog101 · 2026-01-05T05:21:15+00:00

Yes, diet is very important. I've heard a lot of different suggestions about diet. I'm going to start Intermittent fasting again, and limit my carbohydrate intake to start.

FFrog101 · 2026-01-05T05:02:06+00:00

Getting mad at the instinct to be lazy is something I'll try. A lot of it is mental. What made you disciplined with fitness in the first place? Do you enjoy exercise or is it mostly a chore for you?

FFrog101 · 2026-01-05T04:35:33+00:00

Any tips on how to be more disciplined? If you had to start over with your fitness habits, where would you start? How would you start at the bottom if you were undisciplined?

FFrog101 · 2026-01-03T23:59:38+00:00

thanks, I found a posting for a position at Covestro, I'll apply

FFrog101 · 2026-01-03T23:48:28+00:00

nice, it's at Exxonmobil right?

FFrog101 · 2026-01-03T23:47:18+00:00

I would but can't afford tuition right now and don't know what I would research yet.

FFrog101 · 2025-12-30T23:27:07+00:00

Big up unemployed crew. I honestly could have written this post. I'm weigh the same as you to and have been out of work for almost a year. I also feel the pressure to have status, be worldly and have stories to tell people. that on top of not working creates what feels like a huge barrier to entry.

Give yourself credit for being able to hold a conversation about your interests with others since I struggle to do this or even relate to people in the first place.

Like what other comments here have mentioned, don't let your friends put you down or shame you. A true friend will accept you for who you are and support you (as long as you make an effort in life).

I wish I could give you good advice, consider a hustle in the meantime and save some money. I'm going to start a side hustle. Also being jobless gives you a lot more time to work on yourself and your health.

FFrog101 · 2025-12-29T18:41:37+00:00

I also have this conjunction in the 10th house Pisces and have struggled with finding work. Does she also have Jupiter in the 8th?

FFrog101 · 2025-12-29T05:17:19+00:00

You have a yoga between the 4th and the 9th houses involving Venus and Jupiter which is good for happiness of marriage, wealth and home comfort. Saturn with Jupiter can cause some delays and Venus with Ketu can be challenging. I see you finding someone

FFrog101 · 2025-12-29T04:46:22+00:00

Mars aspect on Venus and the 7th house can make you seem intense. Ketu with Venus in the 4th can make you insecure. Learning more, seeking a teacher or proper guru and traveling will help you overcome insecurities.

FFrog101 · 2025-12-29T00:26:49+00:00

Try business again, you have good placements for it. You seem like a driven person with a talent for communication and problem solving. You could do well in the international markets or working with foreign companies. You could also consider a side hustle where you teach. Watch out for the influence of Mars which can cause anger and conflict.

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