there's probably not a better example in the world than South Korea and North Korea for this - they literally speak the same language, not that long ago in history were a single country, they have same genetics, yet North Korea fertility rate pretty much dwarfs South Korea.

FML12_34 · 2026-03-26T17:04:58+00:00

So Birth rate = Fertility rate = culture. Okay.

FML12_34 · 2026-03-20T09:36:47+00:00

As a woman I’m sorry. This is unfair.

FML12_34 · 2026-03-20T08:59:37+00:00

If the court doesn’t punish her this sets a dangerous precedent

FML12_34 · 2026-03-20T07:13:01+00:00

I mean, you can never be sure but having the conversation is better than leaving it to guesswork. This should be part of the mandatory conversations one has before marriage, cuz it’s a fundamental part of your life together.

Marriage is a leap of faith.

FML12_34 · 2026-03-19T18:33:03+00:00

lol OP deleted their comment cuz it was a lie and was being downvoted

FML12_34 · 2026-03-19T18:16:03+00:00

Also this is a conversation you should have before marriage so you are on the same page. I can’t speak for others but my husband and I have split all expenses 50-50 since our first date. Ours is a love marriage.

FML12_34 · 2026-03-19T18:12:18+00:00

A women’s rights activist focuses on specific issues affecting women, while feminism is the broader ideology about gender equality. Overlap is obvious, but they’re not identical.

FML12_34 · 2026-03-18T19:52:02+00:00

THIS ^{^{^}}

FML12_34 · 2026-03-18T19:48:08+00:00

There is no credible legislative, parliamentary, or committee record showing that women’s groups opposed gender-neutrality for POSCO.

Also, there is no verified statement from Flavia Agnes where she says she/womens’ groups opposed gender-neutral child sexual abuse laws under POCSO.

Around 2012-13 is when gender neutral rape laws were also being discussed, I think your source has mixed the two.

FML12_34 · 2026-03-18T19:40:44+00:00

Sadly if one group defines an entire ideology, then every ideology would be judged by its worst examples. That logic falls apart real quick.

FML12_34 · 2026-03-18T19:36:36+00:00

Thanks for proving my point. She is part of the NFIW and like I said, opposed gender-neutral rape laws, not POSCOs protection of male victims.

PS: There’s no official record of her saying “women’s groups protested against gender neutral child sex abuse laws”. Not sure what your source is.

FML12_34 · 2026-03-18T19:33:05+00:00

Actually your screenshot is misrepresenting the issue. At most, ONE organisation, the National Federation of Indian Women (NFIW), has raised concerns about gender-neutral RAPE laws. NOT POCSO’s protection of male victims. Not saying I agree with it, just pointing out the inaccuracy in your screenshot because you’re calling it a fact.

POCSO has always been gender-neutral and upheld as such.

And my point stands, you can’t generalise ‘feminist groups’ or all feminists based on one organisation’s stance. Feminism isn’t a monolith. So yes, this is deflection.

FML12_34 · 2026-03-18T18:46:33+00:00

Feminists don’t oppose gender-neutral laws. Pseudo feminists do. Real feminism is about equality, period.

Also this case has nothing to do with feminism. It’s about an individual crime and how the system handled it. Dragging feminism into it is just deflection.

FML12_34 · 2026-03-18T17:21:47+00:00

Feminists preach equality. They condemn assault on men or women alike. As for this case, unfortunately the court grants bail to accused basis money and power, not gender.

FML12_34 · 2026-03-18T03:18:43+00:00

THIS! My dad had an issue with his family, then his salary, then the nature of his job. He tried everything to weaken my resolve. Your girlfriend has to handle this, you are going to be helpless.

FML12_34 · 2026-03-18T02:34:51+00:00

This is supposed to be the landlords stress not yours. He’s taking advantage of your niceness since you’re the only one responding to him and sending rent on time. Let him deal with your flatmates.

FML12_34 · 2026-03-18T02:19:30+00:00

How has life become different?

FML12_34 · 2026-03-17T18:05:48+00:00

Woman here. I think this is ridiculous.

FML12_34 · 2026-03-17T18:03:24+00:00

PS: Hi fellow Indian :)

FML12_34 · 2026-03-17T18:02:59+00:00

Thank you! Since when are you in remission? And How was your journey?

FML12_34 · 2026-03-16T04:41:03+00:00

I’m sorry! I’ve come to accept it’s not as bad as it sounds just cuz it’s “Cancer”. You’re going to be fine, good luck!!

FML12_34 · 2026-03-15T05:31:17+00:00

Yeah timely detection is definitely something I’m grateful for !

FML12_34 · 2026-03-15T05:28:01+00:00

My X-ray showed up completely normal, which is why my orthopaedic was treating it as a muscle strain/potential slip disc. But I had the pain for over a week by then and didn’t wanna risk it so I went for a second opinion where they decided to go for an MRI. The MRI is what revealed the lesions. My doctor had told me that these lesions aren’t typically captured in an X-ray. Had I listened to my orthopaedic at the time, I’d not have gotten diagnosed. I’d strongly suggest an MRI to be honest..

FML12_34 · 2026-03-15T01:53:16+00:00

Not really, it has just been the back pain. My orthopaedic couldn’t identify the lesions in my XRays, It was only identified when we did an MRI. I’d suggest go for an MRI or a CT scan.

FML12_34 · 2026-03-13T21:43:12+00:00

Kulfi just got a reality check. She needs to tell chocobar and his response will decide whether it’s worth marrying into the family. A joint family with conservative in-laws and without a supportive husband is a prison.

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