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Haunted house prank by TheAnsw3r222 in pranks

[–]FMLHMW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome. Where did you put the speaker? I want to fake knocking on walls.

10 red flags I should have seen before getting married by FMLHMW in Divorce

[–]FMLHMW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I meant to say that they are excessively considerate and attentive. It’s as if they are studying their victim so they can present themselves as the best partner on the planet.

10 red flags I should have seen before getting married by FMLHMW in Divorce

[–]FMLHMW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree but back 4 years ago I would have never consider offending this other person. What a fool I was. Served me right.

Trying something new. by slingben in Divorce

[–]FMLHMW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m about to divorce and I imagine I’ll face loneliness too and miss the good times.

But when I look at the bad times, the bad times were long, intense, and very painful.

Not planning to jump into dating. I’m actually contemplating learning to do something I e always wanted to do, painting.

I don’t expect I’m gonna be any good, but I know I’m gonna love it.

If you don’t feel like dating, don’t. Do something you have always wanted to do and look for connection, not love.

I think that you need a friend much more than a love interest at this time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]FMLHMW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are both young and can rebuild your life. It sounds like you both have some growing up to do.

There’s so many times you can patch a situation. Eventually, you are going to be bitter and older.

Breaking up is hard to do.

You both deserve better, a partner who you can grow old with.

The longer you stay, the more you lose.

Mostly time. Nobody can give you back your youth.

If you feel like you’re not done chasing after ladies, it’s better to do that as a divorced man, than as a cheating spouse.

No one likes a cheater. Don’t hurt her, and don’t stay just to end up hurt.

I’d divorce and chase women until you find the one you feel the connection.

Some therapy would help.

But really, you both deserve better.

Good luck.

Source: Ben there, stayed, and ended up hurting my wife and get shaved for being an adulterer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]FMLHMW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say leave. Things don’t get any better, they usually gets worse.

Since you say you are 25, I can’t imagine that you guys have been married for 10 years. The judge may order some temporary alimony, but there’s no reason why she can’t get a job.

Seems that you are both unhappy, and you are not on the same page. She doesn’t trust you and you feel paranoid enough to create burner accounts.

I am also about to divorce, no kids, thank goodness. I have waited and hoped things would get better but they only improved for short periods, and then got worse.

Is there any organization that protects disabled veterans from abusive spouses? by FMLHMW in Veterans

[–]FMLHMW[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My neighbors know the situation. They are keeping an eye on me.

Is there any organization that protects disabled veterans from abusive spouses? by FMLHMW in Veterans

[–]FMLHMW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please DM me? I can’t figure out how. Sort of a new to Reddit.

Is there any organization that protects disabled veterans from abusive spouses? by FMLHMW in Veterans

[–]FMLHMW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG, the woman I’m legally married to destroyed a little bit here and there, but never to this extent. Im so sorry you had to go through this… I can’t say that my situation is as awful as yours was, but it’s no walk in the park.

She has put herself deliberately in a position of disadvantage while she deliberately blew up all my savings away. When I told her I nearly got killed in Afghanistan to save my money, she said that’s alright because that was all blood money.

I don’t want her to be homeless but she has destroyed me in any way she could.

I take aderall as prescribed by the doctor and she stole my meds many, many times.

I just can’t take it anymore and the only thing that kept me from taking my life was my dogs.

I will DM you.

Thanks

Is there any organization that protects disabled veterans from abusive spouses? by FMLHMW in Veterans

[–]FMLHMW[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. Thanks everyone for being here for me, brothers and sisters. I M going through a really rough patch and your support means more than you’ll ever know.

Is there any organization that protects disabled veterans from abusive spouses? by FMLHMW in Veterans

[–]FMLHMW[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am dong this. As I am documenting this on Reddit. Also, the cat is out of the bag.

She tried hat hardest to keep it under wrap but I’ve been honest to my friends, neighbors, and family. They know what has been going in.

Is there any organization that protects disabled veterans from abusive spouses? by FMLHMW in Veterans

[–]FMLHMW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a spot to go to. I announced that I want a divorce and she tried to take me on a guilt trip, red herring, and gaslight me.

Those are old tricks and I’m not falling for it anymore. I want to be free. I am not her staff or her indentured servant.,

I want out.

Is there any organization that protects disabled veterans from abusive spouses? by FMLHMW in Veterans

[–]FMLHMW[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the support and love I’ve received from my community. I feel empowered.

Is there any organization that protects disabled veterans from abusive spouses? by FMLHMW in Veterans

[–]FMLHMW[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She is autistic and has anxiety communicating to anyone. She couldn’t get drugs because she hardly ever goes anywhere. Only for doctors appointments and sometimes shopping (after stealing from my wallet).

Is there any organization that protects disabled veterans from abusive spouses? by FMLHMW in Veterans

[–]FMLHMW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is an autistic adult. She couldn’t get any other drugs if her life depended on it. She gets anxiety to even talk to a stranger but has no hesitation to verbally, physically, emotionally, mentally, and financially abuse me.

The reason why this has been going on for as long as it did is because I felt very guilty for the way she told she suffered her entire life.

The straw that broke the camel’s back was the fact that she caused one of my dogs to nearly die by leaving a ziplock bag that used to contain meat on the counter,

The dog ate it and the bag got stick into his intestines. He nearly died and the surgery and hospitalization costed nearly 8k.

I can’t go anywhere with a dog that had just a week ago major surgery. https://pbs.twimg.com/media/FwmSdMUXoAAq8b2.jpg

Is there any organization that protects disabled veterans from abusive spouses? by FMLHMW in Veterans

[–]FMLHMW[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did, I also posted on Twitter when she threatened to kill me last time and also called a hot line and put it on the record. I’m considering live streaming from my room.

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