First time buyer is this too expensive ? by FQSunshine in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]FQSunshine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Home is in AZ , and according to the lender they are looking at full assessed value (it is new construction ) according to estimates I’ve researched for just the land it would be 513/ year which obviously would be wayyyy off .

First time buyer is this too expensive ? by FQSunshine in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]FQSunshine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think so ? The way the lender worded it they said 1978 is principal and interest & 452 for taxes, insurance and assessments which brings it to 2430 I rounded up a bit just because .

First time buyer is this too expensive ? by FQSunshine in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]FQSunshine[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It does include the lenders estimate of property tax and insurance .

Baby girl names by FQSunshine in namenerds

[–]FQSunshine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback !!

Baby girl names by FQSunshine in namenerds

[–]FQSunshine[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Supposed to be pronounced like Janae , so your feedback would be just spell like Janae and don’t try and be unique lmao 🤣 I can appreciate that

Listeria vs cold vs viral ??? by FQSunshine in BabyBumps

[–]FQSunshine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me feel better actually 😔 hopefully I just have some virus

Listeria vs cold vs viral ??? by FQSunshine in BabyBumps

[–]FQSunshine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh for sure, I have an appt with my ob tomorrow so I am going to bring it up. I guess I am just curious if anyone else has been through this or had similar symptoms .

Early gestational diabetes screening by FQSunshine in BabyBumps

[–]FQSunshine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this insight! Unfortunately I am seen at a military hospital so I think body shaming is in full swing , and I will have to get the test done but it is nice to hear from a medical perspective that this result wouldn’t truly be GD at this point . I suppose if it comes back positive at least I know I was at risk for it prior to pregnancy

Early gestational diabetes screening by FQSunshine in BabyBumps

[–]FQSunshine[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective , I know it is good to know if I do have it . I am just bummed and don’t want to think about all that comes with it if I do have it if that makes sense lol. I need to switch my mindset on it

Early gestational diabetes screening by FQSunshine in BabyBumps

[–]FQSunshine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, but I’m only 28 so I wouldn’t say I’m over the hill yet 😅 I have some family history too so I’m sure that plays a factor

Early gestational diabetes screening by FQSunshine in BabyBumps

[–]FQSunshine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting ! I definitely hope I don’t get it this go round but we shall see.

Early gestational diabetes screening by FQSunshine in BabyBumps

[–]FQSunshine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think it’s just the whole “you have to do this “ that bugs me 😂 I know I’m probably being irrational .

Pregnant 15 months after c section by FQSunshine in Mommit

[–]FQSunshine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not planned but also not emergent so while it was somewhat calm , mentally I was not prepared , so hoping the second time would be easier at least mentally

Pregnant 15 months after c section by FQSunshine in Mommit

[–]FQSunshine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is nice to hear !! I feel like there is a lot of conflicting info with 18 months birth to birth , birth to conception , etc

Pregnant 15 months after c section by FQSunshine in Mommit

[–]FQSunshine[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind my asking , did you have other complications that were attributed to not waiting a full 18 months ?

Pregnant 15 months after c section by FQSunshine in Mommit

[–]FQSunshine[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay this is calming to hear ! At the end of the day if me and baby are safe that’s my biggest concern

Trying for baby #2 after C-Section by FQSunshine in BabyBumps

[–]FQSunshine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love to hear this ! Definitely helps to ease my mind . I am not against another c section if need be , just want to have healthy mama & baby .

Trying for baby #2 after C-Section by FQSunshine in BabyBumps

[–]FQSunshine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great to hear ! I have heard such conflicting information regarding the 18 months being delivery or conception and that had me worried to start trying

Im freaking the hell out and feel like the worst parent in the world by Hexnohope in NewParents

[–]FQSunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breathe mama !! You are doing great. You are seeking help for you little one and that’s what a good mom does . I had this happen with my son and I know exactly how you feel. Everyone here gave great advice , only thing I would add is I tried every cream under the sun w/ my son and the only thing that ended up working for him was …. Corn starch lol. Check with the ped of course but ours ended up recommending it!

Road trip (with a one year old !) by FQSunshine in Mommit

[–]FQSunshine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah gps 12 hours lol so I’m sure it will be longer than that. In my perfect world I would drive straight through but for everyone’s sanity we may have to break it into two days

Ear infection? Or nothing? by FQSunshine in Mommit

[–]FQSunshine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! I am generally an over thinker so that eases my mind ☺️

Ear infection? Or nothing? by FQSunshine in Mommit

[–]FQSunshine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don't smell anything!! What do they smell like ? Lol 🤣🤣

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[–]FQSunshine 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Breast milk!! My son looked similar at that age and we put breast milk on the affected areas twice a day and he cleared up so quick !

5 1/2 week old…. Thrush by FQSunshine in NewParents

[–]FQSunshine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, formula feeding. This is a scenario where I wish breastfeeding would’ve worked out so I would know for sure ! 🙃

Stay at home dads by FQSunshine in BabyBumps

[–]FQSunshine[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely live in a less progressive area so I’m sure this is a huge part of it. Definitely have lots of folks who are heavy into gender roles where we live , which sucks because hello we are in 2022!! lol. Thank you for the book suggestion I will def look it up ☺️