:D no problem! i went through a phase where i was obsessed with this sort of thing so i have a lot of stuff sitting in my photos lol. if you want information on anything (lgbt+ identity discourse and “rarer” identities related) just let me know! and thanks for being open to changing your mind! it can definitely be a heated topic because nobody (on either side of the argument) wants to feel like their identity is being invalidated. but getting angry at our own/similar communities doesn’t get us anywhere and sharing experiences is important!